Man List

This is an idea from someone diary….which I can not recall at the moment….it is just a list of things I want from a guy….I have been doing alot of thinking about this lately and I have realized that my list has grown quite a bit.  This is another thing that is just for me….just placing things down…somewhere to keep for now….it is in no particular order really….

• educated
• intelligent (which differs from being educated)
• honest
• honest!
• honest!!!!!!
• did i mention HONEST!
• sense of humour (very important)
• likes to be silly from time to time…lets me be silly 
• has a passion
• can argue and debate with me (not against me)–and they know the difference b/w the two
• respectible and respectful towards me and others
• loves and trusts me
• makes me feel special
• can/does forgive
• has a car
• has a job
• their own bank account!
• established credit
• manly but not mocho
• Dresses well
• Smells Good
• has to be romantic and allow me to romantic back towards him
• make me feel safe and protected
• makes plans but understands that being spontaneous is important and is the way I function
• motivate me to be a better person, and allow me to return the favour
• sticks up for me
• is proud of me
• Likes getting taken care of  (2 a degree)
• likes to take care of me (2 a degree)
• gives me space
• has good friends
• can handle my family
• gets along with my family
• has not been married before and does not have kids
• is not a virgin (but has not banged everyone and their mother either)
• wants to have a family and get married
• is independent
• gets along with my close friends
• A good provider
• Likes spending time with me
• Likes to go on trips
• likes animals
• does not hit me
• he has to be friend, a best friend to me
• is verstile and can hang out with different people and carry him self with respect and class
• does not drink in excess
• does not do drugs
• does not have a record
• knows how to have a goodtime
• open-minded
• kind-hearted
• considerate
• understands my quirks (if possible even think they are unique and or cute lol)
• not shy
• will be chessy and geeky with me
• appreciates the little things
• hold my hand when he is driving and when we are out n about
• does not leave an argument unresolved EVER
• I can depend on him and him on me
• is true to his word/ does not make promises he is not absolutely sure about (which should not be often) 
• likes to cook and does not mind that I do not like cooking but I will from time to time
• does not swear AT me
• Upfront, Blunt
• Is sweet under a tough exterior
• not cocky
• Thinks I am beautiful no matter what
• sees the beauty in nature and art
• is able to realize when he is wrong and admit it 
• helps me out when I need anything, allows me to help him
• wants to tell me things, and does so
• he can make things better, and I for him
• does not forget my birthday or any other special days
• likes to laugh and can find humour in many things
• has a serious side
• likes surprises
• surprises me with things for no reason
• has to be taller than me (which is not hard to do)
• compliments me honestly
• patient and giving in nature
• respects my morales and values
• will play fight with me and not just let me win
• witty
• knows that a relationship is a give and take/sharing kinda deal
• does not underestimate me EVER
• respects and wants my opinion
• willing to make scarifices
• understands and respects that I am actually very sensitive even though I do not show it often
• physically attractive to me
• nice but manly hands, strong jawline
• will go on long walks with me when I need to clear my head (if he is not the cause lol)
• walk in the rain with me
• ideally white (long story behind that one)
• does not get jealous easily (have to know when I am with him I belong to him and there is no worry)
• does not make/try to make me do things I do not want to do
• does not put me in harms way (be it by their actions or a particular situation, directly or indirectly)
• knows that I am not perfect and neither is he
• tells me his feelings and thoughts
• honours, loves and respects himself….
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…that is what I can think of for now…hehe…apparently this is very difficult to find?….hmfph….

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31 Things Guys Should Know About Girls Written by a guy. After years of experience

1. Whatever you do, don’t just show up at their house…they run around in their underwear just like we do.

2. Don’t cheat on them. It may seem foolproof, but girls tell each other everything about everything. Trust me, they WILL find out and you will be mud.

3. Beware of every single male relatives and all guy friends. Any of them would kick your butt at the drop of a hat, and a lot of them wouldn’t even wait for the damn hat.

4. Never miss an opportunity to tell them they’re beautiful.

5. Don’t refuse to kiss in front of your friends. If they laugh at you, it’s because they’re jealous.

6. If they slap you hard, you deserved it.

7. Don’t be afraid to touch them if you want to. If they’re going out with you in the first place, it’s because they like being in your arms.

8. If you don’t sleep with them, do not tell your friends that you did.

     –8.5. If you DO sleep with them, don’t tell your friends that you did.

9. You can be dirty minded in private, really…most of them are not offended by it…

10. Not all of them eat like birds, a lot of them can eat like whales.

11. Most of them don’t mind paying half of everything, but they do discuss these things with their friends. Realize that if you make your girlfriend pay half all the time, everyone will know about it and your friends will know you’re a pussy.

        –11.5. Do you honestly need all your money that much? Be a man, pay all the time!

12. Every girl should eventually get three things from her boyfriend- a stuffed animal, one of his sweatshirts, and a really pretty ring. Even if it’s not a serious relationship.

13. Make sure she gets home safely as often as you can. If you’re dropping her off, walk her to the door. If you aren’t dropping her off, call to be sure she’s home safely.

14. If a guy is bothering her, it is your right to kick the crap out of him.

15. If you’re talking to a female friend of yours, pull your girlfriend closer.

16. Never, ever slap her, even if it’s just in a joking way. Even if she swats you first, and says, "Oh, you’re so dumb" or something, never make any gestures back.

17. Go to a chick flick once in a while. She doesn’t care whether you enjoy it or not, it just matters that you went.

18. You’re dead meat if you can’t get along with their pets, parents and best friends. Be prince charming to their friends, Mr. Polite to their parents, and make sure to be nice to their animals.

19. Don’t flirt with their moms or friends…that’s just freaky.

20. Don’t be freaked out by PMS. It’s not gross, and it really does make them feel like crap, so be understanding.

21. If you don’t like the way they drive, you do it.

22. If you’re officially dating, and you’re introducing her to your friends, you’d better damn well introduce her as your girlfriend. <3

23. Don’t stress where you go for every date. They really only want to be with you.

24. If they complain that something hurts, rub it for them without being asked.

25. Girls are fragile. Even if you’re play fighting/wrestling, be very gentle.

26. Memorize their birthdays. You forget her birthday and you’re basically screwed for life.

27. Don’t marinade the cologne.

         – -27.5. But do wear it, girls love that

28. Don’t give her something stupid for her birthday or Christmas or Valentine’s day. It doesn’t have to be expensive, but it has to be meaningful. Jewelry is always nice.

29. If you think the relationship isn’t going to last, don’t wait to find out. It will only hurt you more if you draw it out.

30. After you’ve been dating for a while, realize that they really have started to trust you. When you have a girlfriend who truly trusts you, you have a lot more responsibility, privilege and control than you would think. Be careful with it, most guys would kill for that kind of power, and it can be lost in a nanosecond.

31. Don’t ever do anything wrong (well not anything). Girls remember things for life and anything you did wrong will be used against you in the future.