Glad I am home…

Been home for almost a week.  Things are great.

So after I got him over the issue of me not calling, things were good.  Fast forward to Wednesday night when I got busted for lying.  Seriously.  OK so I lied because he was making me feel bad for having fun — stupid reason.  Anyway I had told him I was going to bed – which was my intention – but when I came in, a bunch of the girls were at the hotel bar.  They convinced me to stay and have some drinks Tuesday night. 

Wednesday morning, I spoke to N.  When he asked what I did, I told him I had gone to my room and gone to bed.  Speed up to Wed night, I slip and tell him I learned how to use chopsticks finally…when he said when I said last night DOH!  Hence the reason I don’t lie…cause I always fuck up my story.

So anyway, we went back and forth for probably about an hour with me apologizing profusely and him telling me to find somewhere else to stay.  My the end of it, he said we would figure it all out when I got home.

So since I have been home, we haven’t really talked about it…I try to avoid it.  The one thing we had agreed upon was that we would never lie to each other…I told him I was stupid. 

And to top it off…the same day he figured out I had lied, his sister and her crazy husband had visited the farm and took all the brick from around his garden that he had worked so hard on….they just did it to be assholes AND they let the chickens out.  So he had already had to deal with that and getting the chickens back in the chicken shack and was in a foul mood.

So when I got home, the ass kissing began.  When he went to work the next day, I went out and replaced all the bricks they had removed (they had left a big pile of them but took the ones we used instead of from the pile grr).  Anyway, did that….refilled the hummingbird feeders, cleaned up the yard where the wind had thrown cans all over, took out the trash, cleaned off the porch – carried two ladders out to the barn, took the crap his sister and them still had here and put it in the barn.  Yes..I was kissing ass but it felt good to get it all done.  He said me putting the bricks back were the sweetest thing anyone has ever done for him so SCORE.

Anyway, things are good.  I got to go Facebook official with the Engaged status. I know it is stupid but he would never let me do that before.  he says he is ready now.  We are planning a wedding on Halloween – which we found out was the day his grandparents got married on so yep…family tradition now 🙂