Craziness Continues…

So…went out with K39 (ok changing it to K – don’t want to type that much and his birthday is in a few days which would change the age lol) last night.  We went and had some beer and wings.

So I had told him I was thinking of getting a hotel room for his birthday.  Take him to dinner and then dessert at the hotel.  Well when we went to dinner, he told me that it was a sweet idea and he appreciated it but I didn’t need to do that – dinner was fine.  So apparently some crazy look came over my face lol.  I just laughed and said ok.  He was like what are you thinking right now?  That look means you are thinking something.  I just shook my head and said nothing – didn’t want to say it.  He is having dizzy spells and blurry vision so the doc is taking him off his meds for a few days to see if it clears up.

So after dinner, we went and sat in the car and talked.  He said when he was little he used to watch all the old romantic movies and he wanted that. (yeah did I mention he is the woman in this relationship?).  I told him I watch them and say its bullshit.  He says it isn’t….he is more of a hopeless romantic than I am.  

We then switched to the topic of sex.  He has only been with like 3 people…THREE.  Yes that is admirable.  He said he doesn’t really enjoy sex — I told him he just hasn’t had good sex lol.  But he and his ex-wife didn’t have sex until they were married and he really doesn’t want to have sex until he is married.  He told me that he wants to move slow but not so slow I run off….WTF do i say to that?  He did tell me he loves me…he said he wasn’t deeply in it but was almost.

Oh and I went all day yesterday without a cigarette.  Had half of one when I got home from date.

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LMAO That guy isn’t even the woman in a relationship, that’s an insult to women…

August 2, 2012

Wow. 39 and wants to wait until he is married again? I think that is the 1st time I have ever heard that from a guy. I do wonder why he doesn’t enjoy it..and was it a problem in his marriage. It was probably hard for him to tell you that.