And so it goes….

So Tuesday night K and I went out to dinner for our one month anniversary.  I paid for dinner – told him it was his birthday week so it was my treat 🙂  This came about because last Friday night he had made a comment that the 7th was out anniversary..I was like ok…I never do anniversaries because I never know what date to use.  He said he likes to use the first date because if you made it past that point, you are good 😛

I told him he was so the woman in this relationship.  He does anniversaries.  He gave me a little homemade card on Tuesday.  He was talking about colors in weddings — yes so he is such the woman lol.  I told him last night it satisfies the internal lesbian in me lol.

So anyway…Saturday is his birthday — turning 40.  So I am taking him out to dinner….then I got a hotel room.  Yes he had told me not to before but he changed his mind lol.  He said he had to give me some before I leave him because of it.  I told him the other night I have been good and not pushed him on it and he thanked me for it but last night he said I kept asking for it…I told him only when he was messing me me….you can’t get me all worked up and not do something about it.  He said that he is turning 40 and he decided you only live once 😛

I was with him a long time last night…he is horse harness racing…and he was buying a horse.  One of his investors backed out on him so I offered to become one…so $200 later, I am part owner of a race horse lol.  The horse got into town last night – beautiful horse.  Hopefully she will win some races – get me some money and him some money.

So yeah…totally hooked on him now.  Yes I still see the problems but I also see the advantages.  He is a sweet guy. He treats me like a queen.  He told me that dating me is kinda like dating a virgin because I had only gotten flowers once before and had never really celebrated any anniversaries lol.  He likes that I am appreciative of all the sweet things he does.  I love that he is appreciative of all the things I do for him.

So yeah….things are going pretty good.  I can see that he has a bit of ass in him – which is good.  I also see some of the things that are bad but he hasn’t done anything to piss me off yet.  I am just going with it — enjoying having someone who loves me and likes being around me.  He loves that I do things for him and show an interest in what he is doing with the horse racing, etc.

Now if I could just quit smoking…