44 days and counting….

So we are still working on getting the house done…we are making great process.

We bought a grill the other day….part charcoal, part gas with an infrared side burner…It is awesome.  N is so excited.  The other night he said he has his dream grill, his dream girl and his daughter coming to the wedding…life is good lol

So the flipside of this whole wedding thing….N’s mom called the other night to let us know that his super religious grandparents (on his mom’s side) are talking about coming to the wedding.  I told him that she has got to talk them out of it.  Last thing I need on my wedding day is having to watch what I say.  Oh AND they don’t like gay people (keep in mind they are in their 80s)..or drinking..or cursing…so basically, everything I love lol.

We have some gay friends coming, we are getting married by the Bartender from the Bar we met at, and we are going to have a keg.  mom and N both tell me to screw them..it is my day..but really….like I could be myself.  I told my mom that she has seen me when I am drinking..does she really think I need old religious nuts at my wedding? lol

OK Religious nuts might be extreme but N has some bad blood with his grandpa.  His grandpa has apologized but originally when they found out that his baby’s momma was preggers, they had told him to get an abortion.  Now they want to come to the wedding cause they hear his daughter will be here and they want to see her.  He is still bitter about that.  His mom and his sister both say that his grandparents have gotten better and aren’t as bad as they used to be but he isn’t buying it.

So all I can hope is that they don’t come.  I would be happy for his family to come visit or us to visit them…..I just don’t want it on my wedding day.  I want to enjoy my day and not be worried that I will make a bad impression on his family.  I am generally loved by family and would hate to change that lol.