Catching up

So I guess I have to catch you up on everything that’s been going on lately. Well…first, my boyfriend got kicked out of his apartment a few days ago so we packed for 3 days trying to get all his stuff out and even then he thought he had forgotten something (Though to tell you the truth, I think we got most of everything that we could get in three days) 
The reason why they had him leave the apartment was because they did a random drug test and found some kind of muscle relaxer in his system.
i’m not faulting him for that because it was random and he really did have a lot of stress on him. So they wrote him a note and told him he had to be out in three days. Which, that didn’t give us that much time seeing as one night he decided to spend 4 hours watching Anime.

The last night he was able to keep the keys we ended up spending the night in the apartment. It was interesting enough because I asked him to fix me something to eat the night before because I was hungry but I was also very sleepy. So I tried to wait to see if he was going to fix something and by that time I had fallen asleep. I woke up some hours later to find him asleep in the bedroom. I got up and laid next to him. He got up a few hours later and fixed me breakfast. Afterwards, his friend came by with his truck and loaded up the last of his stuff. All the while he told everyone that he had no place to stay. NO ONE wanted to let him stay at their home, even though he told them that he’d pay them $40-50 a week. I called the homelss shelters, they told me that they were full. So last night I asked my grandmother if he could sleep on the couch. She said no. At that point, I was so pissed off at everybody I felt like screaming. So to keep him off the streets, I had him sleep in my car. We talked for about 2 hours before he nodded off. After that, I went inside and tossed and turned for awhile. I maybe got 2 hours of sleep total before I had to get up again to unload some of the stuff that was in the car.

So today, he called one of his other friends and luckily, the guy told him he could stay at his place for a few days so at least I’ll be able to sleep better tonight. But it hurt me to see him sleeping in my car. No one cares when someone needs help. I told him that those so-called friends of his weren’t really friends. He knows it and I know it.
The hardest thing about all of this is the fact that he has an aparment but he can’t move in til he has rent and deposit together and that wont be for another 3 weeks.
So if it so happens that his friend doesn’t let him stay at his place for that long, I’m going to get the heater console for my car this weekend so he can at least stay warm in the car. No one else seems to give a rats ass that this man basically has nowhere to go if someone doesn’t let him sleep somewhere. But if the shoe was on the other foot, you better believe they’d be asking for a place to stay. I just think that’s cruel. And the fact is, they’re all making up dumb ass excuses. The kids are coming to town, I have no room. DAMMIT MAKE ROOM!! Its not going to kill them to have him sleep on the couch or even the floor. Get some blankets, some pillows and he’s cool. But no, everyone was to be difficult. No one is actually considering what the hell he’s going to do if no one lets him sleep somewhere. Anyway, so that’s whats ben happening lately. I’ll write more later