hypocrisy, bullshit and lies

Know what I can’t stand?

1) People who want to mock others for their desire to grow, to “evolve” to change and better themselves – then jump on the same bandwagon a year and a half too late.

2) People who claim to want growth and self-improvement but can’t get it because they’re still lying and telling half truths to justify to themselves that they’re not really that bad, and everything can still be blamed on others. Not getting an answer is NOT the same as not getting an answer you like.

3) people who claim to take full responsibility, but end their thoughts with “but”. As in…yes, I did something wrong, but…it’s really this other person’s fault that I’m like that anyway.

4) People who claim to be taking the steps needed to burn bridges and move on – when really they’re left with no other option, because the other party is already long gone and has no need of them.

5) people who feign indignation and play the victim when they find themselves in situations that are because of their own choices. You want to act like the bigger person? You have to be it, first.

6) People who get angry at others for mocking something that they themselves spent years degrading. It’s okay when you do it – any one else? Hands off.

7) People who claim to want to move on, but are still desperately trying to hold on to pieces of the very thing you claim to be over.

8) people who claim to have “lost” something that they made the choice to delete in the first place and then expect someone else to replace. Perhaps you should make better choices when it matter, and things wouldn’t be “lost” to you.

I hate bullshit, half-truths, flat out lies and hypocrisy. It’s retarded really, and it’s a sign of your emotional immaturity. Grow up and be an adult like the rest of us have to be. At this point there is really no excuse. Until you learn that lesson, you’re going to be stuck exactly where you’ve always been – nowhere. With nothing. I feel sorry for them, really. They’re never going to get it. And it’s their own damn fault for it. Get a clue, get a life, and get over yourself. Learn to take some real responsibility and tell the truth for once. You might be surprised how quickly some things can turn around for you. Oh – and you find yourself trapped in the same situation over and over again – maybe the problem isn’t everyone else in the world – it’s probably just you.