TO REMEMBER ME

The day will come when my body will lie upon a white sheet, neatly tucked under four corners of a mattress, located in a hospital busily  occupied with the living and the dying. 

At a certain moment, a doctor will determine that my brain has ceased to function and that, for all intents and purposes, my life has stopped.  

When that happens, do not attempt to instill artificial life into my body by the use of a machine.  And don’t call this my deathbed.   Let it be called the Bed of Life,  and let my body be taken from it to help others lead fuller lives. 

Give my sight to the man who has never seen a sunrise,  a baby’s face or love in the eyes of a woman.

Give my heart to a person whose own heart has caused him nothing but endless days of pain.

Give my blood to the teenager who was pulled from the wreckage of his car,  so that he might live to see his grandchildren play.

Give my kidneys to one who depends on a machine to exist from week to week.

Take my bones,  every muscle,  every fiber and nerve in my body,  and find a way to make a crippled child walk.

Explore every corner of my brain.

Take my cells,  if necessary,  and let them grow so that someday a speechless boy will shout at the crack of a bat and a deaf girl will hear the sound of rain against her window.

Burn what is left of me and scatter the ashes to the winds to help the flowers grow.  If you bury  something,  let it be my faults,  my weaknesses and all prejudice against my fellow man.

Give my soul to God.

If,  by chance,  you wish to remember me,  do it with a kind deed or word to someone who needs you. 

If you do all I have asked,  I will live forever.

(From  "Chicken Soup for the Grieving Soul")  copyright   Robert N. Test

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May 18, 2006

this is good stuff. and very much a change of pace and mood for you, isn’t it?

🙂

May 18, 2006

I loved this *HUGS*

May 18, 2006

this was a wonderful entry!!!

May 21, 2006

ryn~ *giggles* are you serious? it’s pretty straightforward, although if you can eat wheat there’s no reason to have ricebread!

This one is so fitting, I have recently lost a very near & dear loved one. In April to be exact, thank you for sharing this.

May 28, 2006

Hey! I’ ok now…my drug cocktail is perfected so it’s all good. I think I was just fooling myself that I loved it…well I guess I did/do love it, but as i said it was killing me. I ended up in the hospital with extreme dehydration, two ulcers and a nasty case of somache acid overload that burnt the inside of my throat pretty bad…yum huh? There’s not much you can do…knowing you care helps!

May 30, 2006

This is a very nice entry RYN. I’m not sure why you would wish to see a picture of me!!??

Now why is it that I always seem to find myself in a towel, dripping wet reading your notes.

June 2, 2006

RYN. I am disturbed… (well, I’m not- but I am by your comment)

June 5, 2006

RYN, It’s alright- not offended, altho I suspect some of my regular readers might be. A little thought or explanation never went astray…because I was just bemused quite frankly.

OH MY GOODNESS ! why I’m staring at this huge hunk of flesh of yours of course. May I ?

Where are you ? Have you forgotten us ? Hope everything is ok. We miss you.