Got a question…

  I got a question for my readers.  Especially since most of my readers are female.

  I have this class with this one girl…we’ll call her Muse.  Anyway, I actually had a class with her a couple of semesters ago.  We had talked a little, but not much.  But when we saw each other in this class, we’ve been acting like we’re old friends.  We talk to each other before class, we walk from class together until we get to where we seperate.  Here’s the kicker.  I know she’s with someone, been with him long term.  As far as I know, things are still okay with this guy.

  However, she does do stuff like playfully hit me, touch my shoulder, that sort of thing.  So, is just secure in feeling like we’re friends or is she interested in me?  I’m not saying that I’m not interested in her.  I am, I’m just not too keen on getting into another relationship right now.  I wouldn’t say no to friends with benefits though, hehe.  Anyway, that’s the latest thing going on.  I’ll write more later.

-Damien

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October 14, 2008

Sounds like she still wants to be in her relationship and is happy in it but she feels an attraction to you and likes the fun flirting. And hey who wouldnt like to flirt with you 🙂 Love you!

October 14, 2008

she probably just does it for the rush, if i’m honest. Most girls with a bf (since i’m one of them now) like the rush of flirting and knowing we still have it to get a guys attention but we probably won’t act on it…. but it can’t hurt to hope and try!

she either really likes you, or likes ‘friend’ you, and is a big flirt…like me!

October 14, 2008

if shes in a long term realtionship i would say tht the flirting is just a ‘fun’ thing and she probably hust lkes being your friend =) x

October 17, 2008

Personally, I do stuff like that when I’m attracted to someone even if I’m not exactly interested in them…if that makes sense. Or if I’m just really comfortable around a person. Plus alot of girls who have been w/ someone long term like to flirt because it makes them feel like they’re still sexy.