Life after LB?

I took a much needed shopping trip to Lane Bryant last week. My relationship with them is truly love/hate. I hate that I have to shop there…but love that they offer trendy clothes in my size. I hate their summer collection, but love the fall line. Anyway, I picked up several items with my precious 18/20 label. A couple of the shirts were baggy and I had toddler butt in the pants. What in the world?!? Was I ready to finally reach for the *gasp* 14/16s?

I left the store with my first “official” 14/16 items (I say “official” because I’ve visited the size before, but only because the cut of the garment was so generous…LOL).  I was positively giddy when I left the store, but I couldn’t help feeling a little panicked as well. While I know it will be awhile before I move out of LB totally, I couldn’t help wondering what happens after that glorious day? Where do I shop? I’ve been plus-sized since 8th grade. I don’t know how to shop with the “regular” folks. I hate to admit it, but LB has been great about disguising my flaws. Are smaller clothes that forgiving? Me thinks no.

Speaking of flaws, I’m becoming more open to the idea of plastic surgery once I get closer to goal. I’ve never been under the knife for cosmetic reasons and I’ll admit that the thought makes me a bit queasy. However, I do not want to live with my excess skin forever.

A friend of mine recently had a body life after losing 100 lbs. She has a scar that pretty much travels around her entire lower abdomen area, but she looks great. Hell, I’d rather have the scar than the loose skin. What’s on my agenda? Definitely a breast lift and tummy tuck. I started WW wearing a 52D. In 2.5 years, I’ve lost 12 inches around and dropped a cup size. Umm, the girls are not very cute at the moment. All in all, I’m looking at an approximate cost of $11,000. That’s almost a car note. I’m going to be in debt forever.*

*Unless I can get my doctor to agree that the excess skin removal (around the abdomen) is medically necessary. If that’s the case, then hopefully Cigna is picking up the tab.

Is anyone else seriously considering a little personal nip/tuck after the weight is gone? If so, what are you going to have improved? I am accepting notes from everyone on this entry, so I want to hear from non-Open Diary folks too!

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October 8, 2003

AWESOME!!!!! leave the tags on! LOL seriously! I would! I’m on WW too and if I have health insurance when I reach goal, I’ll probably seriously consider having a tummy tuck. I figure that can be my reward 🙂

I’ve told my husband that if I ever get down to my “goal weight” that I’m going to get a boob job; they’re small now and lifeless looking, if the rest of me is going to look good, so should they! 🙂

October 8, 2003

omg, wow. I just went to your DD page to see how much you’d lost. thats so awesome!! Congratulations! I’ve got about the same amount to lose all together, so I can relate. now I have more motivation!! 🙂

October 8, 2003

i absolutely love Lane Bryant… there’s an outlet store right down the street from my work… i swear i can go nutso in that store!… 🙂

October 8, 2003

I’m seriously considering breast reduction. I wear a 38 DDD and one of my breasts is bulging out of that. I am only 5’4″ and am wearing size 14/16 pants. Even when I wore a size 10, I was a 36 DDD, so they don’t get any smaller. I’m just waiting to stop having babies first. If your knee was bothering your mobility – you’d get that fixed w/out a 2nd thought. Sad that we have to pay for it

I also went to your DD page and…WOW…I’m adding you to my favorites list. Right now I’m trying to find the courage to start on my own path to a healther lifestyle, and I think I can find inspiration here, in all that you’ve accomplished! 🙂

October 8, 2003

When I was 21 I lost 50lbs and had a breast reduction. My doctor said it was medically necessary so I didnt have to pay for it( My boobs were HUGE). Anyway, I consequently gained the weight back, plus more. OF course it went back to my boobs among other places, and now they are huge again( although not as big as before). I hope and pray they get smaller. I have lots of muscle so I doubt

October 8, 2003

Id have to have plastic surgery elsewhere. My fat is in my hips/ass and tummy. My arms arent big at all. Ive been major slacking on WW, and I decided to get some Meridia because my hunger is out of control. I wonder if its from all the cardio I do, I defeat the purpose though because I eat.

October 8, 2003

You’ll be outta LB territory SO soon! You are so awesome, girlie! They always hae had great fall clothes, I recently went in there with my sis and I was drooling over some of the stuff I saw. Of course I want a tummy tuck, I don’t care about anything else at this pount, I’m sick of doing 200+ crunches a day and seeing my belly just flup over when I’m done, grrr!

Depending on how my boobs look, I’d consider getting them lifted. God only knows what the kid will do to them and how my waistline will look.

October 8, 2003

Ugh! sorry… I was not thinking… I mean 25 mile ride!

October 8, 2003

RYN: just a little typo… relax. 😛

I’m considering the possiblity of having to do a tummy tuck and we’ll see what the breast do. So far, so good. But I don’t want the breast lift scar so I’d more than likely just get implants if I did anything to my breasts at all. WTG on fitting into the 14/16’s. Head over to New York & Co, Old Navy and the Gap. You can say farewell to LB now if you want to.

When I did JC before and lost 40 lbs, I reached a point where I was too big for “regular” stores (at least from the waist down) and too small for LB. It was SOOO frustrating, but I’d rather be there than where I am now. Oh, well, I’m working on it. Congratulations!!

Oh, and what determines if it is “medically necessary?” You’d think they’d pay for it to reward you for making yourself so much healthier. It could be like an incentive program. . .

October 8, 2003

YOU ROCK! 14/16s are so awesome and such a great accomplishment!!! i’m going ahead and answering your question you’ve posed, but you know my answer already… 🙂 i want a breast lift (no new boobs, thanks) and i want surgery to work on the excess on the tummy, back, and bat wing (arms). i’m thinking i’ll be in hock up to the eyes for most of my natural life. 😉

I too worry about excess skin. I’m gonna have a LOT of it.

wow that is alot of money for something like that…but if i was to do it it would be a breast lift and tummy tuck cause the tummy is my biggest problem area and maybe the top part of my inner thighs

October 9, 2003

Congrats!!! You are an amazing woman.

October 9, 2003
October 9, 2003

I have a love/hate with LB too. I hate the fact that when something new comes out, its either 39.50 or 49.50 or 59.50 and then a few months later its 60% off Red line or 6.99. The other day I saw a skirt that I almost bought when it was 49.50. It was 6.99 but the top was missing. I bought my graduation dress for 39.99 then 5 days later it was 27.50. I got the difference back.

October 9, 2003

Hi Diva, I can finally leave a note because they reworked the FOD site! yay! I have a love/hate relationship with LB too. I think I will be happy to finally not be able to shop at LB, but ‘regular people’ clothes are not quite as forgiving and it still takes patience to find flattering items. In regards to the surgery. I believe most insurance plans cover it if you can prove that the (cont.)

October 9, 2003

… excess skin is causing other medical issues. Specifically rashes and other skin infections. Otherwise I’ve heard that it can be a little tricky convincing them that it’s not a cosmetic procedure (I won’t rant on that… not enough space!). For what it’s worth – I’ve lost far less than you have and my girls aren’t too perky anymore either… not that they were doing much sun saluting b4 either!

First of all — I am sooooooooooo excited about you venturing into another new size at LB. I personally have never hated LB — I love it! As for as plastic surgery…yes I want it. I want new boobs, a tummy tuck, liposuction and a nose job. I want skin resurfacing on my face and my teeth whitened. Not much, huh? hehe Seriously, I want new boobs and a tummy tuck. The rest would be a bonus! 😉

Congratulations on your new size drop!!!! I LOVE Lerner (Is it NY & Co now?) They’re owned by the same company as LB, so generally are flattering.

RYN: No, it does seem like drama ends up being part of the bargain & I like my drama on my television, not as a part of my life. Lol.

Dearest Courtney, you don’t know me from a can of paint, I sent you an e-mail and you graciously responded ,Thanks!!! One of these great day I will leave LB behind also and I won’t feel any pain. Congrats on your victory and pass a little success on to a fellow weight-watching sistah!!

October 11, 2003

RYN-scooter: i saw one in the SkyMall mag on the plane today! LOL. the flying lightning something-or-other scooter…made me think of you.

October 12, 2003

Oh man … I fear having to leave LB too. I’ve lost around 60 pounds so far and shopping is finally fun. Hopefully the first time I can shop in a regular store I don’t freak out and max out my credit card. Yipes.

October 13, 2003

RYN: correction, spoken like a Texan indoctrinated in the art of padded warfare (aka football). LOL. baseball is way too boring for me. maybe if i understood the game a little more — but i doubt it.

October 15, 2003

Congrats on going down a size! I know how hard that can be in Texas, where our meals are enormous… excess skin removal would be good…I’m actually interested in chin augmentation (I have a really weak chin…)

October 15, 2003

I have lost 115 pounds in the last year. My poor little boobies are hopeless. But I would like the little kangaroo pouch gone from my tummy. But I’m way too cheap. I’d rather spend the money on lasic eye surgery. But I’m even too cheap for that!! Congrats on the smaller size. Leaving LB will be easier than you think, I bet.

October 15, 2003

I’d consider a breast lift… but I don’t see how I could ever prove medical necessity, and I definitely can’t afford it. It’s so sad, though — I was DD and now I’m a C/D, but a sagging skinny kind that only becomes a C/D when it’s smushed up into a bra. And I haven’t had kids!–