25 Things You Should Never Apologize For…
From the Sistahs on Weight Watchers board…
1. Never apologize for pursuing what makes you happy. Even if you need to quit your job, transfer schools, or move across country, always do what you really want.
2. Never apologize for using proper English. Keeping it real doesn’t mean speaking Ebonics.
3. Never apologize for giving your best in a relationship that just didn’t work out.
4. Never apologize for being successful. Only haters want to keep you at their level.
5. Never apologize for crying. Wear waterproof mascara and express yourself.
6. Never apologize for the ten pounds you need to lose. People who truly care about you will accept you as you are.
7. Never apologize for being frugal. Just because you save your money rather than blowing it on the latest fashion emergency doesn’t mean you’re cheap.
8. Don’t apologize for being a single Mom. Babies are blessings not mistakes.
9. Never apologize for treating yourself to something special. Whether it’s a great dinner, a soothing facial or a banging outfit, sometimes you have to show yourself some appreciation.
10. Never apologize for leaving an abusive relationship. Your safety should always be a priority.
11. Never apologize for keeping the ring even if the wedding bells won’t chime. Hey, it was a gift.
12. Never apologize for setting high standards in relationships. You know what you can tolerate and what simply gets on your last nerve.
13. Never apologize for saying NO.
14. Never apologize for asking for what you want in bed. If you don’t, then who will?
15. Never apologize for wearing a weave. You bought it so it’s yours.
16. Never apologize to your new friends about old friends. There’s a reason why she’s been your girl since day one.
17. Never apologize for ordering dessert, or more than one dessert.
18. Never apologize for dating outside your race. Just because you found Mr. Right across the color line doesn’t mean you don’t love the brothas.
19. Never apologize for asking him to wear a condom. If he really likes you, he’ll wrap it up without making you feel guilty.
20. Never apologize for not knowing how to cook. Even if you can’t burn like Grandma, you know how to order take-out.
21. Never apologize for your taste in clothing. It’s your style.
22. Never apologize for changing your mind.
23. Never apologize for exercising your right to choose. It’s your body and your life.
24. Never apologize for making more money than your man makes. You work hard and you deserve to get paid.
25. Never apologize for being you!
AMEN!!!
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DID YOU REGISTER?!?!?! http://www.danskin.com/triathlon/index.html (I’m so excited!)
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Great entry… thanks for sharing! Later,
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I love this list. Thanks for posting.
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#3, HELL yes.
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Good points all. Keep keeping it. 😉
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Great entry…found you on the main page. By the way, great job on your weight loss. You go girl!
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that’s exactly right! ~
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Great entry. 🙂
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Great list!!
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#2: YES YES YES YES! (Says the frustrated holder of a B.A. in English…)
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very cool entry! RYN: aw, c’mon, you’re taking away all the fun! look at me, drooling over a priest. who, btw, i’ve become immune to…honest. did i mention that he made some crack about becoming a nun? do i look like nun material to you?
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more words I needed to read today. thanks for posting.
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I love these! Well, except for #11. If the chick breaks it off, she should return the ring! I’m a white chick, but I think I could learn a lot by practicing these guidelines you posted…
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Girl got it going on with the list! Words to live by. Especially number 8 for me right now. Hope you are well. 🙂 Courtney
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Yo dawg! How funny,I don’t apologize for speaking ebonics. I have the ability to to use decent grammar Thats keeping it real to me.! :-)LOL! Peace,Monica Joy
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Why would someone even think about keeping a ring that was given to them as a gift of commitment? I guess many of these do not apply to me,lol.
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I’m printing this out….
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That was awesome! Dayum you are fast! (Re: your response to my latest entry, lol.)
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Awsome!!!
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