08/04/2009
So.
Aaron’s 30th birthday is tomorrow.
Do you know how difficult it is to find a birthday card for your currently-separated-but-maybe-kinda-sorta-trying-to-eventually-work-things-out spouse?
Let me tell you – Hallmark just doesn’t sell cards like that.
After a half hour in the card aisle, I managed to find one that matched the tone of what I was trying to convey, but it wasn’t easy.
I still don’t really know what’s going on with us. He hasn’t said a word about things lately, and I’ve been letting him have that space for now. My patience isn’t everlasting, though. I figure I’ll give it through the end of the month and then I’ll ask him for a decision. Seems fitting; our fourth wedding anniversary is on the 29th.
I would continue to ramble on about the state of my non-marriage, but I’m trying to get the living room clean, wrangle the kids, write my business plan, and deal with the lingering nausea of my virus.
Toodles.
*laugh*. I’m sorry, I’m sure it’s not an easy situation, but I like how you described his status 🙂
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Wow. The fact that you’re wrangling kids AND writing a business plan blows my mind. I know people who couldn’t write a business plan if it was put in front of them already written. If you know what I mean. While I have sympathy for your non-marriage situation, I’m glad that you’re setting yourself a deadline for a decision. You deserve to have an answer, you can’t exist in limbo forever.
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You are one busy woman!! Take it easy.
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Reminds me of when I was trying to find a Valentine’s Day card that didn’t say ‘I love you’ when I first met my husband!
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you should email halmark & suggest it xx
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Hope things get better!
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