I win.

The Critters had a half day of school Friday, which did us no good, as it was their father’s week-end to have them.
They also have Monday off tomorrow.
No less than 3 times did Sonja text me over the week-end to make sure they were coming home tonight.
I think we all figured the Idiot was going to try and say he got to keep them till Monday night…I was waiting, and waiting, and waiting…
I figured, come Sunday, and he hadn’t said anything that maybe he wouldn’t. Nope…I was wrong.
I’m sure he thought I was going to just roll over and say it was all fine and dandy…I’m fairly certain he wasn’t expecting me to put up a fight.
But a fight is what he got.

The texts went as such:

Ex: I get the kids till tomarrow nite no school on monday

Me:  That doesn’t mean you get them.

Ex: Read the agrement i have first preference on days off and half days fourth line down

Me:  I have read it. And when we went to mediation it was said it is if I wasn’t available to be with them.

Ex: No it gos the way it is written

Me:  I have a copy of the letter from the Friend of the Court that defines “first preference” as being when I am unable to care for the ‘minor children’.

Ex: Well u must have an old copy

Me:  It is a statement from Friend of the Court of their policy, which I doubt they’ve changed at all.

Ex: Did u for get about the sined agrement from when we went to medation

Ex: I can give u a copy of it we both sined it

Me: I have a copy from the mediation.
And it says “The summer, holiday and school break parenting time shall remain as currently ordered.”

Ex: *switching phone numbers & sending a picture*
Here is a pic of the order that I have it spells it out in black and white
*insert top have of an agreement from August 2008. Of which I already have a copy*

Me: That is what I have to.
Then I have a letter from Friend of the Court after that date.
In which it states: “first preference is viewed by this office as being afforded to you when the Defendant is unable to care for the minor children…”
*insert an attempt to send a picture of the letter, which is dated June 15, 2009 <—My birthday even…I considered it my Birthday present when I got it.*

Ex: Send me a copy

Me: Sent it to *insert e-mail address*

Ex: Ok I was wrong sorry

Me: Okay.

& that was it. Although I’m sure he was quite annoyed on the other end of things.
What is really obnoxious…He should have had a copy of the letter, as it was addressed to him, and mine was a copy they always send to the ‘second party’.
It was from when he tried to complain to Friend of the Court saying I refused to give him his parenting time. & then was told, nope, I was in the right.
Don’t suppose that is a letter he’d actually keep though, as it proved my point was valid.

On a seperate note…I was looking up ‘Business Casual’…As we have to have a picture of ourselves in business, or business causual clothes for the website we have to build for Social Studies…I was going through the images…And what do I find, in the middle of all the pictures of people in clothes…A peacock!
He’s still stalking me…I also noticed that the picture on the printer ink is also a peacock feather. I’m trying…I really am.
I’ve read about peacock, and I keep trying to mediate on the thought (which admittedly, I’m horrid at). I need to take a time when I’m not ready for bed and try…I lay down, and try…I relax, and breath, and think, and…Then find that I have fallen asleep.

But that is it for the moment.
Sleep is soon…Not sure what all tomorrow is going to bring…But it is going to be me & my Critters. *smiles*