I want him to fall of the face of the planet
Gee…Anyone want to wager a guess as to who before I go on?
From what the Critters said on the way home today, Dan is going to try to get more ‘parenting time’ with them. He wants them every other week. He hasn’t said anything to me about it, which I’m sure he won’t, that would take guts/nerve that he doesn’t have. Apparently he told them he filled out paperwork of some sorts. Well I am not going to agree to it Not going to bloody well happen…Which will mean mediation, I’m sure…It would be nice if the people who we’ll have to deal with would listen to the Critters, and see & understand that they don’t even want to be there every other week-end, let alone a week at a time!
He bullies the Critters into saying whatever he wants them to say when he’s talking to them…He won’t take whatever answer they give him if it’s not the one he wants to hear.
The only reason he’s doing this…He managed to get fired from his job, so he’s not doubt trying to get out of paying child support. Which I don’t bloody well care if he pays it or not…He can stop for all I care, and it would be nice if he’d let the Critters have their say in what they want.
Sonja can’t write or draw while there…Neither of them have a room…Neither of them have a bed. Harley doesn’t sleep in his room here, or on his mattress…But he’s got them. & currently Sonja doesn’t have an air mattress anymore (it deflated somewhere along the lines, need to try and find the hole), but she’s got her room. She can’t escape and go outside and listen to her music there. Harley can’t get on the computer or play any of his video games (despite the fact he took two or three of his games to his father’s house, he’s not allowed to have them now). Neither of them are allowed to be truly them. They are treated as second class citizens in comparison to their step-siblings.
I just wish he would disappear and take that thing he married with him…It would be a benefit to all beings on the planet.
Tell your lawyer to have a home study done at your ex’s home, or get a guardian ad litem to do it and make recommendations to the court. If the kids don’t have bedrooms or mattresses, that’s a HUGE no-no. [lasergirl]
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ugh. i agree with lasergirl. *hugs you lots*
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agreed! He needs to just fall off the face of the earth. I can’t believe that. Er well I can. How sad is that… never even met him and I can believe he’s doing this. Poor Critters 🙁 *hides ’em away*
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wtf why can’t she wirte or draw while she there?!?!? he a *says a few nasty words* Low son of a …. yeah How lame you know he won’t get out of paying child support even if he (wich he wont) every ohter weekend or whatever.
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He seems like a bizzarre and twisted person who should not be allowed to exist. On the bright side, his idioticness doesn’t seem to be hereditary. I’m surprised that the custody agreement doesn’t force him to have a special place for them to sleep. This is how I got cheap rent for next semester (living in my friends step daughters room since she only lives there for summer and X-mas)
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guardian ad litem does seem the best way to go to be honest. They actually talk to the kids and see what they want, rather than listening to everyone else. I mean, they do have to talk to you and him, but they do listen to the kids. Good luck xxx
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He’s crazy. I hope it all works out for Sonja and Harley.
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RYN: I am hoping the deco will just send cooler weather! 🙁 Holiday music on the radio and 70 degrees outside makes me feel like I’m in Florida… not Missouri. LOL
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