Just A Vent 2
I’m having a hard time coming to terms that my Mother and Father don’t want to know me, and that they will miss out on seeing Callum grow up. I Know that I should see it us they are missing out, but I can’t. I missed out on knowing my Grandparents and I don’t want Callum to miss out. I don’t want to be walking down the street in 10 years time and have them come up me like nothing has happen. I don’t want my son to ask “who was what”.
If your wondering, I haven’t spoken to them and in a week. They never called me.
Kellie
*BIG HUGS*
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big huge monsterous hugs.
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*hugs* someone has to make the first step…even though it is hard
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If they are going to be like that, then you, or callum dont need them. You seem to be doing just fine. *hugs*
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Wow. What an sad situation :(. It’s my belief that grandparents treat grandchildren far differently than they did their own children.. so they’d probably make a wonderful addition to Callum’s life… However if they add stress and tension to your life they will hurt Callum inadvertantly. Maybe they can have a some small part in his life, unless they come around..?
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I’m sorry. (((hugs))) And here I am trying to figure out ways to keep my kid away from my parents. It’s a long story. *sigh*
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((HUGS))
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*hugs* I hate dealing with family, I hope you are doing all right.
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Ohhh, you poor thing! Lots of hugs and kisses!!
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*huge hugs* rejection can kill you emotionally, especially when it’s your parents rejecting you *hugs* take care of yourself hun and know you are worth more than your parents are giving you, ALOT more.
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*huge hug* One thing I learned from meeting my father….they may act like nothing happened, but even after 10, or 20, years, it will still come back. Ignoring it doesn’t make it go away on their part. Dealing with it does. They aren’t ready and as hard as it is to face….*hug* You are a great mom to Callum, and eventually, they’ll see they are missing out and they’ll have to grow up.
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I can totally relate to this entry. I have not talked to my Mother for over 7 months.
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