My Brother

Its turned out that mum want to talk to me about my brother.. Brother already 18 years old, and he brought a girlfriend back to stay in our house and claimed that it was because it was more convenient to for her to have her tution.

Mum was so worried that she might be some run-away home girl and something bad may happened if they sleep in the same room. But my brother threatened to run away if she dares to chase his gf away.. *sigh*  Told mum, time have change and we could only trust his action.

I talked to my brother, after 1.5 years of not being able to be around with him, i can feel that he had changed to be more rebelous at this age. He told me about the stress that he going through and mum is always constantly nagging.. it sounds so familar, like when i was around his age.. which is like 10 yrs ago..

I find teenagers now so different already.. we can just let them do what they want and yet have to trust them.. everything have to leave to their own decisions on their life.. if we keep scolding and correct them, they just think that we are not concern and dun trust them..

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July 7, 2007

educate him abt the complications of sex before marriage bah….

July 7, 2007

I think you should talk to you brother about it, especially since you know what he’s going through and you can empathize better with him and not make him feel as though he’s being told off just cos he’s not an adult and he’s not old enough to know better. I try to talk to my brother like that too, mostly it works but other times, my blood totally ends up boiling.