ugh: boring husband work rant

 

Oh why can’t the never ending diatribe of SHIT stop coming?

My dear husband, as frustrating as he can be, is having so many issues at his company right now. I hope he doesn’t get mad at me for writing about it, but I have to vent! He was basically suspended for overstepping and trying to manage a co worker. I don’t know really what happened, but he seemed to just shut down after the phone call. I ended up channeling all of his stress and sorta freaking out. He was almost written up last week for working from home too often and then at some meeting a bunch of people were mad at him for not following the chain of command for their staff and now THIS. He says he was just telling this guy to get stuff done, but it’s not his job and now he’s in trouble. He was supposed to be at his shift right now (he’s doing graveyard this week) and they told him to stay home for the next two days essentially (not tonight or tomorrow night) and then go in on Friday morning and have a meeting with his boss. I am scared he will get in more trouble, but I don’t know. It’s just… awful. This place likes to fire people and he is not immune to it. The thought of him losing his job and all that crap right now is truly stressful. I’m hoping the good relationship he has created with his boss helps him to just NOT get in too much trouble for this.

 

i told him to stop trying to be everything to everyone and facilitate all this crap. He needs to keep his nose to his own grindstone and let other people fail. He’s already had issues with helping people and then being told its not his job to help them and I’m like CUT IT OUT! Obviously they aren’t the ones getting in trouble, he is. He needs to leave everyone alone. This is why I hate people. They couldn’t go to him and say "dude, back off and let me do my work" instead, they go whining to his division head and getting him into trouble.

 

What I fear is that he was also drinking at work, since they think it’s a good idea to keep beer around there all the time, and that influenced how he acted. He is not a really terrible type sober, but drunk he can get abrasive and jerky. I told him that he has to stop. He can NOT drink at work or around co workers ANY MORE. It will only take one bad thing to get himself fired. He agreed with me, but him actually following through is another story.

 

Anyway, I’m nervous about what will happen Friday. I wish he didn’t have to wait. Why can’t he just go in tomorrow and deal with whatever?

 

UGH.

They say they are paying him for these days off, so I hope that means they still want to keep him and not plan on firing him at the end. But I don’t know. I don’t like private industry for the simple fact that they can fire you on a whim and they don’t have to really say shit except "You’re an at will employee, get the fuck out"

 

UGH.

It makes me just want to go get my own job. I’ve never had to worry about this. Once again, it’s like my damn kids. I’m a good employee, I do my work, I keep to myself, and I go home nad leave it behind. My husband is the opposite. He does his work, but he brings it home, he’s always in other peoples business, and now he’s getting in trouble for it. He is making me nervous.

 

And husband, if you do read this, and I know you read my shit sometimes, you know i already feel this way. I wish you would just listen to me. Not many people have a dream job, but you have a damn good one right now that takes care of your family and affords you the ability to do what you are good at. Please keep that in mind when you want to over step because you want to over achieve. Sometimes it’s better to color within the lines. 

 

*sigh*

I don’t know if I’ll be able to sleep.

I’m a mess.

I hate everything.

 

 

 

 

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