Social Worker Update
I texted baboo about the social worker coming and he responded. So I guess he’s not mad at me. Maybe he was joking.
So many things get lost in translation.
I dunno…
Ugh.
AGAIN!!!!
I just talked to the social worker (after calling her several times and getting voicemail, she finally calls me) and she said that the abuse hotline was called and they said it was an emergency situation.
ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!!!!
While I’ve decided (per Baboo’s wise advice) to NOT confront them, I really want to. I want to just go right in their faces and SHOW THEM what abuse is.
Yeah, my temper is really flared on this and I want to react in really inapropriate ways.
but I’ll behave. It just makes me see RED. seriously. RED RED RED!!!!!!
But the social worker says that after talking to Jacob she really doesn’t think there is an issue but she has to complete the whole process.
UGH UGH UGH UGH UGH!!!!!!
I hate this. It’s not fair.
Whatever.
I just want to get this shit over with and be done.
Why in the hell would I RESCUE a brother from abuse and then go home and abuse my own kids in front of him.
Are they stupid?
JESUS.
I really just want to go up to the bitch that reported me and smash her face into a wall.
But whatever.
This should be over soon.
I swear.
I just HATE even being in their system now. It’s not right.
I didn’t DO anything.
Audacious bitch whore cunts.
ANYWAY… that’s the update.
I guess I’ll write again after she leaves.
it’s really messing up my dinner preperations and the fact that I have to pick up Baboo at 7 doesn’t help.
ugh!!!!
Blah for horrible blah days! I’m sorry Baboo is being a weird-ass (re your last post). I’ll smash the social worker’s face if you like, I’m spoiling for a fight! 😀
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xoxoxo I’d be livid.
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Do you know who called on you? I’d love to show her some damn abuse. Those people are crazy. I’m sorry you have to deal with this. I hope it gets resolved soon.
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Damn. It’s just so f*cked up!
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I’d be absolutely livid if someone accused of me of abuse. HOWEVER-I have to play devil’s advocate. When I worked as a preschool teacher there were one or two children who showed signs of abuse or neglect. It’s a very very difficult situation to be in as a teacher-she could have called just to be a cunt but chances are she called just to make sure Jacob was safe…
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In this instance she was proven wrong and everyone wins in this situation even though it sucks-but at least she is a good enough teacher to care about a child to call social services. I know a few people who should have had social services called on their parents but no one stepped up for them and now they have a multitude of problems from abuse.
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Hopefully this can be done and you can move on with your boys and have Jonathon work on his anger issues. You know and we know you provide a loving safe household for those boys and you have gone above and beyond for them-so that’s all that matters.
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“Audacious bitch whore cunts”, that’s a good one although it doesn’t exactly roll of the tounge.
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So they reported that Jonathon was possibly beating up Jacob? Did he do anything to make them think he would do that – other than be angry? From what you write, it seems like he just gets mad and throws fits, but not actually at people.
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I think I really might say something to the person who reported me if I ever found out who it was. Your son is probably acting out in violence because he’s been BULLIED.
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That is so messed up. <3 Annie-Rae
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omg im sorry ur in this situation. i hate when ppl resort to child services like that. my nieces school sent letters home sayin they’ll call child services if u pick ur kids up late or drop them off late wtf?? im pissed now too! hmmph! *super huge hugs*
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Just caught up. WHAT ASSHOLES. Seriously, who are they to do this to you!?! As for Baboo, thank God he’s acting more normal.
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I am so mad for you!!!! I had CPS visit me b/c I refused to pick up my daughter from Juvi… in the middle of the night, while I was alone with a sleeping infant, toddler and 7 year old in bed. um nope… not gonna do it. Let her sit in juvi. But I’m a bad parent. HA! I hope though, that you do feel vindicated. too bad you couldnt shove the social worker’s report up her ass.
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boo bad days. yay for kittens though. Chris
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I’d want to find out who that was that called the hotline because you guys need to have a meeting. They can’t just be going behind your back calling child protective services like that with no reason other than your son acting out. Do they go calling every time a child acts out. That is just outragious!
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To be honest im proud your holding your temper im not sure if i could. kudos to you for being so in control… but seriously someone should punch some heads in for it lol
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I’ve been reading for a long time and never noted but this pisses me off. They’re all eager to come after you for not doing a single thing and yet it was almost impossible to get anyone to do anything about your brothers situation when he was actually being abused. Something is seriously wrong with this system. I’m sorry you have to go through this.
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