My holy virgin vagina

OK, wait. I can’t even get past the first. Whoever said that to you is a weak, jealous, close minded, judegmental schmuck and has no idea that you are so much more than what they are seeing. And if they had any level of decency they would at least sign the notes and be a man or woman about it. Hiding behind notes. GROW UP!! Sorry, I can’t deal with that.

AND ANOTHER THING!!!! Chaos, I know these notes don’t bother you but I will so hurt people if it happens again. That is so not right.

preach on sister.

Damn, what is all this about? Need to talk?

Seriously, now I’m pissed. You send hate noters to me and I’ll take care of them.

I think I’ve read you a few times before, and I think those notes are ridiculous to say the least. Oh and for the idiot’s information: I was a single mom who put out on a first date if I damn well pleased, and yes one of the RESPONSIBLE, RESPECTABLE guys I put out with married me. They can go take a flying leap. BRAVO for standing up for your children!

Bitches and hoes. I can’t believe people leave notes like that. Fluck ’em. Fluck ’em I say!!!! Hell, I had sex with my husband on the first date. What now, anon note writer? You going to come to my diary and call me a whore? Pshh

as soon as i read that…ahhh fvckers…that’s so inappropriate. jesus christ that’s bullshit. i’m so sorry somebody had to say that to you and about your adorable sons…asshats. have a good day…ugh i’m peeved. Ali

And one last tidbit because I’m sceaming bloody murder over here and just in your case your anonymous noter decides to visit again….I have slept with people even before a first date and see no problem with it. Hell, I married a guy I slept with before we even went on date. Shut up with your morals if you’re going to hide. *hugs* to Chaos and NOT TO YOU!

OMG! what is with all these ugly assed notes to everyone lately?? this is the third or fourth entry i’ve seen with nasty notes. people piss me off. ‘specially the ones who are too cowardly to sign their name to a note. and make the other lurkers look bad. *sighs* i’m sorry, lady, that people suck. *hugs*

You rule.

And for the record–not that this needs to be said, because you shouldn’t have to justify your actions to someone else–you are NOT a whore. You are a responsible adult who has a good head on her shoulders and you are entitled to your ‘fun’. No one has the right to accuse you of anything remotely similar to being a whore. NO ONE.

IF someone were to call my kids bastards, I would want to rip them to shreds too. Whoever left you a note is a dumbass. You are an awesome woman and mom. So what if you like sex? This person is probably so ugly, they can’t get any and are just jealous. lol

***pushes up sleeves, takes off earrings and wraps hair up in a bun*** We LOOOOVE YOU CHAOS!!!!!!!

Whoever said that to you is a really dense bitch. Yeah, you probably slept with someone you shouldn’t have, but you love your boys and take care of them. That’s all that matters.

I put out way before there is even mention of going out on a first date. *Shrug* I love love love me some big fat dick. Rawr!

The part about the bastard children was a little uncalled for. I don’t think they had a right to say that. You do have to admit though that you aren’t acting in a way that’s best for your children…you don’t know these guys, they could have hurt you or your kids. Why not find someone worthy of you and your kids? You do deserve more that what these loser guys are offering you and so do your kids

My kids are bastards 😛 Except I don’t think so, I’m their mom AND DAD. I fill both of those shoes quite nicely, and you do as well 🙂 I wonder why it’s so hard for people to *like* the women who do more than they ever could, hmm, jealousy perhaps? *nodnod* yep 🙂

Obviously that note leaver does NOT know the real you. We do, and that’s all that matters. And to the anonymous coward – at least Chaos has the guts to leave HER name. More than I can say for you ! Loser

YOU GO, GIRL!!! ive said it before and i will say it time and time again, i hate anonymous notes and noters…nothing but jealous cowards…. ive read you for a long, long time and i think you are doing FABULOUSLY WELL with your wonderful boys. ((((BIG HUGGLES)))

How freakin rude. Lets stoop to calling someone children names. OH, you are SOOOO adult. Idiot.

You can really see the immaturity in people when they start attacking the childen of the person they intended to attack. Your boys are beautiful and they will be good people because they have a good mother.

Hee! Go Nique, go Nique, go go go Nique!! I LOVE how you took that bitch down. Because while everything she said about having sex on the first date and such is stupid and backwards and downright woman hating (which I assume that noter was female so it was self-hating, she probably has sexual issues) the whole thing about your ADORABLE, WONDERFUL children is utterly uncalled for that I can barely

I think they deserve four new assholes.

see straight right now!!! Doesn’t this noter know that you have A LOT of VERY loyal and VERY fiesty readers/friends who would rip her to shreds FOR you so you don’t have to get your pretty little hands dirty. Yeah, she probably does and that is why she was a CHICKENSHIT and didn’t sign her name!! What a freaking judgemental pain in the ass!! It’s YOUR life, she knows NOTHING about it and has NO

RIGHT to say ANYTHING about you and ESPECIALLY NOT YOUR KIDS!!! That whole b-word things pisses me off so bad in the first place. Come on you stupid small minded FREAK who probably can’t have an orgasm, it’s almost 2004!! People have been having babies out of wedlock for the last 50 years!!! Come into the new millenium!!! FREAK!! This is why so many of my favorites have gone “Favorites Only”

Oh and just so your bassackwards noter knows I TOO have slept with men on the first date. I married a man I slept with on the SECOND date. In fact, I have had guys over who have simply been BOOTY CALLS! Women have needs too and there is NOTHING wrong with SAFELY taking care of that. In a relationship as Monique was in with BOTH of the father’s of her children SOMETIMES things are a little more lax

But you wouldn’t know that, would you you lameass because you have probably NEVER had a boyfriend. You probably can’t pull your head out of your dogeared copy of “The Rules” long enough to actually go on a date. Either that or you married as a virgin and now you are bitter because your hubby can’t get it up!! Grow the schfluck up!! *HUGS* Monique, we love you!!!!!!

people are f-ing rude a$$holes, you have two of the most beautiful children I have ever seen. whoever it was seriously needs to get the Sh*t kicked out of them. grrr stupid people make me mad. <3 Annie-Rae

You go, girl. Rock on!

f them, first off the fact that these people dont even have the guts to leave a name says ever thing.Dont waste your time of efforts on them

yay mommy power!

I’m so sorry that a childish, hurtful, spiteful, cruel person felt it their right to judge and label you. Perhaps this person should first analyze their own lives, actions, and beliefs. A person that bitter cannot be truly happy. You are a strong, powerful, beautiful, responsible woman who OBVIOUSLY adores her sons. I’m thinking jealousy and bitterness describe the unknown noter. ;0) (Kiersten)

*hugs* I’ve been attacked before. I know how it feels. *more hugs* I hope anony-butt goes away and soon. ~

what a hideous thing to say about two much loved children. This is 2003, not 1903 family dynamics are different. People should just live with it! Christ, I;m angry for you kiddo.

You weren’t in a serious relationship with Jesee. You weren’t in a serious relationship with Winston. And if you were doing the best for your kids you’d be going after their “fathers” for child support instead of trying to get back with them and you continued to sleep with Jesse after you saw who he was. You let guys use you. They see you as nothing more than a warm hole to but their dick in.

“DON’T YOU EVER CALL MY SONS BASTARDS. THEY HAVE FATHERS AND I KNOW WHO THEY ARE.” It doesn’t matter if you know who they are (are you sure??), they don’t know their fathers and they never will because you didn’t care enough to make sure you were in a committed LIFETIME relationship with someone that also WANTED a kid. That’s irresponsible. What do you have against birth control??????

the nameless asshole strikes again. what is up with this? doesn’t he/she/it read your diary, monique? why does he/she/it insist on spouting all this bullhonkey from his/her/it’s ass when she/he/it has no idea what he/she/it is talking about????

Is it Monique’s fault that sometimes, things don’t work out EXACTLY the way you want them to? Is it Monique’s fault that sh*t happens and Jesse turned out to be a f*ckhead??? Is it possible for her to know these things ahead of time? You can’t fault her for NOT being a psychic.

Does this nameless jerkoff really buy into his warped, completely bent out of shape and totally WRONG point of view? Holy krap, seriously, whoever you are, you DON’T-KNOW-WHAT-YOU’RE-TALKING-ABOUT. We know her SO much better than you that it’s hard to pick whether we want to kill you, laugh at you or just pity you for your obviously crippling ignorance and stupidity.

I’ve come across some bad mothers. Jokes of mothers. Mothers that leave their kids home alone for a whole day, sometimes a day & a half, 2 days. Mothers that don’t give a flying horses patootie if their child/children is/are crying or hurt or hungry or just in need of a lil affection. Monique is nothing like those moms. She’s probably one of the BEST mothers I’ve EVER encountered.

Do you, nameless noter, honestly think she got into these relationships already knowing that these guys were inevitably going to leave? Do you ACTUALLY think that she’d do that, get serious with a guy, and I mean SERIOUS, if she KNEW they were eventually going to blow her off? SHE’S NOT STUPID. I KNOW THIS WOMAN. SH*T HAPPENS AND THAT’S NOT HER FAULT. SHE DID HER BEST, THEY WERE

THE ONES WHO STOPPED TRYING. SHE LOVES THEM WITH ALL HER HEART & IS TAKING CARE OF THEM ALMOST 24/7 & DOING A DAMN FINE JOB OF IT. WE ALL KNOW THIS. ALL, IT SEEMS, EXCEPT FOR YOU. P.S., a woman with kids AND a healthy sex drive is nothing to look down on. So cast off your old tired ethics, back off and shut up, no-name moron.

oops, when I said “she loves them with all her heart” I was talking about her kids. And she does. I wish all mothers were as loving as this woman. Alright, I know I’ve left a novel of notes, I’m sorry, I’m leaving now. Monique, sorry about the flood, I just wanna stick up for you cuz…. I luvs you and this person is being….. ugh, just totally off base and out of line. *hugs*

hey nameles snoter– get off your high horse and get a life.

okay, wow…that was….wow….I dont blame you, but you must know, I giggled when you said you didnt come at him at the door butt naked and jump on him….it would have been pretty amusing if you did. And you are NOT a whore. not at all. Do you have respect for yourself? Do you have respect for your body? then you arent a whore….

Jeezus Criiiiiiist!! What the hell even? I can’t even believe that person said that!! I’m just in …. shock.. my gawd