its not going right *E contract *E upset

Sometimes that can happen normally, just because of how the program works. Good luck on everything!

Ahhhh! It’s all so confusing! I’m so sorry.

All the changes will lead to good… hang in there.

Change is more often than not very difficult. So much all at once, too! Hang in there! HUGS

*hugs*

Yeah, change frequently sucks until later! *hugs*

Don’t cry over a house. Cry over a house when there are zombies in the street.

Hugs.

Don’t worry too much about it – our house is still listed and we’ve lived here (and owned it!!) since Sept. People are just dummies.

I’ve been on the outs with OD so I haven’t been around much. On a completely lighter tone if you move to Simi Village that would be excellent solely based on the name! I’m going to make a new town in Sims and name it Simi Village

Hopefully he can get get his contract stuff together before you go on maternity leave. *FINGERS CROSSED* But a bidding battle for him won’t hurt either. Whats the earliest you want to go back to work?

He has to know that he has a family and a baby on the way doesn’t he know what would be the best option. I get the feeling that he’s not considering of the options because he’s not thinking the situation through enough clearly with the fact that he has a family and a baby on the way and he just thinks that you’d be comfortable that way. I’m just getting this from what you said. Hugs. It sucks

to throw up from anxiety. Hugs I hope you feel better soon.

I mean considering all of the options.

I don’t like this either!!!!!!! What about benefits?

nooo!!! Doesn’t he understand that they are only giving him this offer because of the threat of him leaving?! Once the threat is erased, there will be no reason to keep rewarding him for good work. The other company starts out better, and so obviously they treat their employees better. This means better benefits, pay, and job security for the future. This current job may be able to offer up a promotion now, but what about the long term buddy?!!? He’s obviously not thinking this through. grr! Sorry Hun xo

And what if he takes this offer from his current job, and they just let him have the position long enough to find someone else who will do the same job for what he WAS making? This is such a bad decision, and you need to tell him that. Don’t hold all these feelings in – it will be a big mistake. I understand you thinking he has to make his own decisions, but his “own” decisions ended being a possibility when opted to get married and start a family.

I think Baboo is thinking with his heart instead of his head, he doesn’t want to leave or reject his friends because of it. Hopefully he’ll come to his senses soon! I’m sorry this is so upsetting for you, but remember it WILL work out! (Despite the bull that’s going on now) <3

*hugs*

🙁 Sorry sweetie.

I think he is making the wrong decision!

They left our house listed until the day after we signed the lease, had the keys and had already paid our first months rent and security deposit. They have to keep advertising it until they absolutely have someone living there or they will screw themselves. It’s for their protection. Don’t stress it one bit sweetie!

Ugh, ugh, ugh! I hate change, but sometimes you just have to give up what you know and are comfortable with (current job) for something completely new. This is a great opportunity for him. Hopefully something will click and all will become clear again, either way.

Take care of yourself. Um, not that you asked for any advice, but. I think that’s the best thing you could do. I hope all goes well for you and your family.

HUGS

you are not a cry-baby! you’re under a hell of a lot of stress and you have a lot of responsibility. would sitting down with b and making a pros and cons list of each position help? what about taking it over with your dad? you’ll work it out.

** hugs**

*hugs*

Big hugs to you.