Well~


 
So after saying nasty things to me, she stormed into the room she shares with Camryn and proceeded to hit the walls and then threw something at the window and broke it. It looks like the panes are individual but in reality they are not just one big pane with wood trim making it loo old fashioned. So now not only do I not have child support money but I have to find a way to replace the window and it is a rather large one, and they no charge $$$ for lead removal of windows. I only know this because when we did put 5 new windows in a couple of years ago, I paid  a $100 per window for that I think.
She just stormed into the house, I’m so grateful that the kids have a swim meet tonight so I will be gone for over 4 hours tonight, by the time we get home from dropping off the granddaughters, it will be late enough to shuffle kids to bed and I can go hide in my room. Since Tommy works tonight, I will have Camryn sleep in my room so that she stays safe. I never thought I would be thankful for a husband that worked third shift before but I am right now, as having Camryn sleep with me will make me sleep better, knowing that she is safe from the irrational window breaking teen. The boys are mad at her as well, since she breaks the xbox stuff that they buy to play her xbox. When she leaves it goes with her and I won’t have to deal with the fighting over that anymore. Can I just fastforward my life to October 07? Perhaps even to next May? I haven’t heard from my attorney, so I might be stuck with her for 3 more months, but I don’t have to talk to her at all. On a brighter note, the MIL, said she would cosign for a school loan for me, and that will help us out with gas money to and from school. We also are refinancing the van loan for a cheaper payment but will have to pay on it for an extra 12 months or so, but it is at a cheaper interest rate so that also is positive and we can pay more on it whenever we have the extra money. So not the best situation but more tolerable to make the monthly payment. The best news is that even after all the money problems, the husband’s credit score is 698 or so, again we need to improve it but in the scheme of things it is not so bad…….Ok, I gotta run and get kids to the swim meet…..it’s going to be another long night after 2 nights of no sleep.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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July 4, 2012

teenagers are so hard! I feel your pain. The good news is, they grow up eventually.