seriously….

okay so that one word is the perfect answer to most of what i have to post about lol….

1… we all know i disappear from open diary for months at a time… SERIOUSLY…

2… this is a biggie… mom informs me that she invited her boss to thanksgiving dinner….and her son…his wife and their baby… what’s the big deal you ask…well he happens to be my ex-boyfriend…not that it bothers me to be around him, but his wife is not exactly the nicest person… she yelled at arron for hugging my mom a while back…. and faked being sick when he introduced us so he could take her home…. SERIOUSLY…

3… the step mom of my darling daughter….has so screwed up my holiday plans… how you ask? well she convinced the daddy to get file their taxes late…getting a 6 month extension… so they didn’t even file their taxes until october… so once the irs gets to them, i have to wait another 6 months to get their return for the back childsupport… i knew i shouldn’t have planned on it being here in october, but i did…so now there are a few things i can’t get the kiddo for christmas, not a big deal, but still would have loved to have gotten them for her….. SERIOUSLY! (i think maybe she thought she’d ruin christmas…well think again…this mommy has it all under control!)

4… my sister and her ********** of a husband (feel free to put any explicit word there describing the prick!) have decided that we are not allowed to see the girls any more… we’ve seen them a total of 6 times this year… this will be the first year that we haven’t seen them for thanksgiving or christmas… SERIOUSLY! (but it’s all backfired because mom & dad are taking them to court for grandparents rights…. and they have a heck of a case)

5… i woke up and realized that the guy i was writing in prison…(yeah yeah i know) well it was just a friend thing, but at the same time, he was trying to "make’ it something it wasn’t… and quit writing me when he realized he couldn’t con me into doing his bidding and sending him money… SERIOUSLY!

6…i kind of have a relationship lol…yes i say kinda, because it’s one of my soldiers that i adopted… and well you know how things go by mail…we’ll see how things turn out in april… SERIOUSLY! (he sent me flowers from Afghanastan!)

7… Chai won a contest she entered….it was a drawing contest to design the new billboard for ohio university football or basketball…she had to pick one sport…and she chose basketball…(wonder why lol) … and she will be presented with an award at halftime in 3 weeks…she was so excited when i told her today (and i messaged her dad…told him and shock shock he messaged me back lol, not that i think the wife knows) SERIOUSLY! 

8 …wow see not a whole lot SERIOUSLY going on here… i mean life is good, even with the road bumps people have tried to cause… my daycare business is going great…and the photo thing is kind of turning into another business…. i’ve had a couple photo shoots i’ve been paid to do… and then there is the jewelry making and candle making… that’s kinda taking off too…. so now all i can really do is try to spread the luck and help someone else get their lives back in order (no one in particular, just talking about volunteering and donating things) i guess SERIOUSLY doesn’t really answer any question there… but you get the point, life is good…..

on a side note… there are soldiers waiting to be adopted…want to know more http://www.soldiersangels.org 

another side note lol… Chai won little miss talent this year for the old settlers…. she sang Carrie Underwood’s just a dream to her Uncle Jared (her dad’s brother) ….she wanted to sing to her dad, but he couldn’t get leave to be home for it… check it out… http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rNMnr_QfRus