ooo preschool

so tomorrow we have a preschool screening appointment…..

i found out though that they did registration like back in may….i’m a bit new at the whole school thing for kids…so ne way there is like two spots left, and fortunatly the person incharge of it all is one of my friends mom….so she is saving a spot just for chai…..

i’m not ready for her to be in preschool….but she is excited….she can’t wait to go school shopping like her big cousin harlie…..she wantes everything princess….go figure lol….

so we’ve got a busy few days in the next week…tommorow registration, monday her well child check up with lead testing…..and then i’ve got to call and get her into the eye docs…if they need that soon…..otherwise she’s not due for a checkup until october…we’ve already been to the dentist….so all i’ll have to do there is get him to sign the form…..not doing too bad since i had no idea what i had to do lol….

we are off to athens when mom gets home today…have to go get a copy of her birth certificate…..of course it doesn’t have marks name on it, but that will be fixed soon….as soon as we have court over that and child support…..

so here’s the question…do i be a nice ex…and have them change her last name to include his….because i know i will definatly not have her name be just his last name, it will have to be my last name and his last name or something like that…..

but i don’t know if i should even mention that…i mean if he does show up to the hearing it will be a major shock…i highly doubt his wife will want him to be there….that and the fact that he is in dorth dakota….she’s already got to be ticked that he will now have to not only pay child support for chai but also for her half sister who is 2 years younger than her….so that’s just money coming out of her pocket…and believe me, his family has dubbed her the gold digger…..so that is going to be an issue….

everyone tells me i should be worried that he’s going to go for custody, but i don’t feel i have anything to worry about…he has spent maybe a month visiting her….and that was when she was 1….he has had nothing to do with her since then…..

i mean i can see him going for visitation, but i don’ t see the state letting him take her out of state for visitation….i mean there is no relationship between them…don’t they have to build on that?

welp i’ve got lots to do…more thoughts later

cole