Not much of


an update…. really life is just going through the motions. Work, school, housework, sleep and repeat…

 

There hasn’t been a lot of chaos outside of the tiny terrorists I care for on the daily. The new babies are growing and meeting milestones, and the toddlers….well they are terrorists on their worst days, angels on their best days… I would like a happy medium on the daily lol but usually that is not the case.

 

I’m starting to get excited about having the house to myself… especially when the 12 year old niece does something to drive me crazy. It will be really nice not having anyone to clean up after, aside from the daycare….

 

My mom called today… she and dad are upset that my sister is moving and buying a house. They don’t understand whybshe can’t get a loan for this one. The cost to repair outweighs what it’s worth. No bank will give a loan until the repairs are done….and my parents feel that we are responsible for them since we live here and are “buying” the place. We have no documentation that we are buying it….and when we went fix the rear entryway (the floor joice broke) we were just gonna take the door completely out and make it a wall again…. originally the door wasn’t there…. and dad said “you can’t take the door out because if I decide to sell it, I’d have to put it back”

 

Why would we put more money into this house for him to turn around and sell it

 

…..so I’m not moving with my sister and her bf… because he already has issues with the daycare kids breaking things…. i’m not gonna live in a house that is in his name and be told quit my job or move out …..so I’m staying here… gonna attempt to fix what needs fixed ….at least to where they can sell it when I’m done with school….assuming the job I get is out of state lol

 

But yeah….that is life this week….

 

Today is baby Seth’s bday…. he would have been 2. I miss my little Leonard…. (daycare baby who passed when he was 6 months old)

 

 

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October 10, 2023

Yeah, sinking more money into it makes absolutely no sense, especially if that caveat of them selling it remains.  I get hedging bets, but expecting money to be sunk in only to potentially turn around and sell it…that’s nuts.

Most Young/Young children are terrorists…would have thought you’d’ve known that by now.  😉

October 11, 2023

@tigerhawk yep….so I’m only gonna fix what is necessary while I’m living here and plan for relocating after I graduate and get a job

Lol and yeah I know most kids are terrorists….just have hopes of changing that aspect of their growing process…