i don’t know what to do…

so here’s a bit of a delima i’m in…my daughter is 4….she wants to talk with her dad….who is remarried….and in the air force….his wife wants him to have nothing to do with her…

so about a month ago…i found her myspace page…i left her a message, nicely written, saying that malachai would like to talk to her dad and that she could call my cell and ask for chai if she didn’t want him talking to me personally…that i didn’t have to be in the picture, even with the phone calls…..i also said that malachai needed to get to know her as well, since she is technically her step mom….it was a well thought out note…

well so he calls me at like 2am the same night….and we talk for a bit….his wife is P*ssed that i emailed her, let alone that he wants ne thing to do with malachai…so he pretty much said he wants to have a life with malachai, but he’s got to get things settled in his marriage….becasue and i quote "she is a selfish B*tch"

so then his unit goes on some kind of field test…he’s gone for like two weeks or something….so i understand that he didn’t call anytime while he was gone….but he’s been back home for at least two weeks now…and he hasn’t called…you ask how i know all this * well i kinda stalk her myspace page lol…..well i it’s set to private, but i can see her status message and she always has stuff up there about what she is doing and all that….the field test was on his base homepage….so that i didn’t get from her…..is it a bad thing that i watch her page every now n then?

well now back to the delima i’m in…malachai still wants to talk to her dad…do i call? because i have the number..but i don’t want to cause him any more grief in his marriage….i mean i don’t need him blaming me in the future if she decideds to leave him….because she was threatening that earlier….plus she doesn’t know he called….so then she’s going to wonder how i got his number….which i could have gotten off his brother…but yanno, she’d automatically think that he has called me…

there is nothing there for me and him, other than our daughter…we are friends…or at least trying to be friends for malachai’s sake….

so any ideas?