and it begins again…

 i swear he really can pick a winner…yes i’m still on the issues of mark and his wife… bah! i so had them out of my mind after i wrote about the wedding and all that in the last entry… until yesterday…

cory (his brother) and his wife lindsay called me to let me know about what happened after the wedding and the drama that mark’s wife is trying to bring into my life. apparently she convinced him that if he turned me into childsupport for not reporting that i’ve been working the last three years, that they will lower his child support amount… well she just brought a big mess into their lives now…because one, i have reported that i’m working…and two if it goes back to court, they will likely increase the amount they have to pay monthly… not lower it, considering i make a lot more than i did when the court first did the calculations. now he is going to have to take leave again to appear in court, or miss court like the last time because he  couldn’t get leave… and now the courts will enforce him putting malachai on his insurance, which i haven’t made issues about because i have insurance and figured they could use a break with having 3 kids… so Rachel you were right…i am way too nice and forgiving… but this time it isn’t bitting me in the ass! 

so i called childsupport yesterday to make sure i had called about doing the daycare in my home since jess & i split the daycare kids… and of course i had called about it… and the lady said that if it goes to court they won’t be lowering it…it won’t necessarily go up any more, but they won’t lower it unless he has had a paycut…which if ne thing he’s had an increase with his promotion… so really as much as i should be the bigger person and not find this hilarious because of the situation he is in, i just can’t help but laugh and wish to see the look on their faces when it backfires… 

apparently the wife told lindsay that it was "my f***ing money" and that i didn’t deserve it… which makes me laugh even more considering i deposit most of it into malachai’s savings account every month… my little girl is going to have a nice chunk of $ to start her adult life out with… (because we all know that the wife’s thought really were "it’s my f***ing money for my habit") 

lol so yeah that is where my yesterday took me…so now i will put them out of my mind until the next bit of drama…side note, which really made his brother upset with him is that he didn’t even come say goodbye to malachai… actually the day after the wedding he got into an disagreement with his brother over the childsupport thing, and they packed up their stuff and went to her family’s house for the rest of their time in ohio… but anyway… the whole thing about and it begins again… was kinda in reference to his first wife and how she cut him off from family… he sure does know how to pick a wife lol