8 March 2009 – A Day That Will Live

More details later folks, just wanted to let you know…

 

There was mucho family drama this past week, caused by the ex.  Her bottom line:  if I was gonna keep my FFS (facial feminization surgery) in August, then she wanted me out to the kids this week (the daughter is home on spring break).  If I wanted to wait till May to tell them (after college semester, at least), then she wanted me to delay FFS till October.

 

After much consideration, we (me, ex, and my therapist) decided that telling now didn’t have many disadvantages over telling in May, and May didn’t have too many advantages.  So the plan is for me to sit them down and tell them later today after lunch.

 

wish us all luck

Will report out later tonite, hopefully will have more time

-Jude

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March 8, 2009

Keep us posted.

March 8, 2009

Good luck.

March 8, 2009

Good luck.

Good Luck :o)

March 8, 2009

wow! That is life changing!

xoxoxo

I think you know that I wish you luck but I’ll say it anyway. Good luck today. I hope that your talk with the kids goes well. I’m sorry that your ex is trying to dictate your life. *Hugs* Robin

March 8, 2009

Hello Jude. You will be in my thoughts today and wishing you best of luck and much inner strength. (I’m also so excited for you and where you are on your path.)

March 8, 2009

Not bad, eh? We will wait for things to bubble up. But I dare say that it seems to have gone pleasantly painlessly. ahhh.