Marriage & Baby Talk
I woke up sluggish and having a hard time waking up. Me and Chris stayed up late last night making love, and then I had weird dreams about some chick trying to “steal” him away from me. Kicked her ass lol. Well I was feeling crappy so after making love again, he made me feel better by having a nice serious conversation with me about him wanting kids. He said he wants me to stay off birth control. That way when we get married, and he means right after we get married and institutionalize the marriage, we can start trying. He wants to start right after we get married. ( So Kimmie you and hubby better get started if I’m not to break that promise to you lol.) Me and Chris have been picking out cute baby names. He’s having a lot of fun telling me yes I like that or no I don’t. So far he’s only happy with one name for a boy which is Constantine Harlan. Harlan was my grandfathers middle name on my mom’s side, and Constantine ( despite people believing its because of American Idol or that new movie) because its unique and rarely heard. Girls we’ve been having a harder time with. We have narrowed it down to two names. Either Aurora (rori for short) because the Northern Lights are the most beautiful thing I will ever see, besides my child, or Lydia for my Grandmothers middle name on my mom’s side. Not sure about middle names. We got time though. I know the perfect name will come to us. I’ve always wanted to know the sex, even though I love surprises, we need to be prepared for the arrival. I hate getting unisex items, I think thats cheesy to give someone. Plus naming your baby and calling them by its name, instead of baby or it, gets you in the mindset and relieves stress. I think it helps you to realize that you are bringing life into this world. I’ve also always picture my delivery, screaming at Chris and saying all the cliche things women say when giving birth. Lol! Just to mess with him. But in actuality I probably won’t care so much when the time comes lol.
Still can’t believe September isnt here yet. This year has been taking so long. He purposed 6 months ago but it seems like years. Only 6 more months to go. Hurry up and get here September. I know a good friend of mine on OD is itching for it to arrive too lol. It’s so weird to see Chris excited about marriage and having a baby. When we met over 3 years ago, he was 24 and not even wanting a serious relationship. I grew on him I guess lol. I’m very determined and when I saw him for the first time, I knew he was the one I wanted to marry, even if I hadnt even spoken to him. -sings this will be, an everlasting love-. My life is going in the right direction, and I didnt even know what that direction was before. I wanna learn how to knit and hopefully start making cute scarfs.
**does the get-here-quick-September-dance** Darn, that didn’t work either lol! I think I had one or two of those weird some chick trying to steal my man dreams. She always ended up broken and brusied somewhere while I was running up to Henry like “Oh shnoppy woppy!!!” Lol so corney! So funny but I joke and say that when I’m 35 I’ll think about kids but seriously I’d consider it a bit before then
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just not right now. Henry and I talk about it and I picture me being pregnant and him being so helpful towards me it’s annoying or like rushing to the hospital while making him swear he’s never touching me again in this lifetime. The best ones are when I think about him playing with his son or daughter and just laughing and having fun, it’s cool, but at a later time I think.
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As for names, we have no clue!! That’s where the fight’s going to be lol.
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That is so exciting! Congratulations on your upcoming marriage. My fiance proposed in Nov. 2004 and we’re getting married in June 2006. You are so lucky that he brought up the idea of having children. Most men don’t want to even think about it, lol. He sounds like a great guy! 🙂
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I am soooo excited for you girl!!! I too was thinking the whole American Idol thing with the name…
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Aww 🙂 Your names are cute. I like them and names are one of the things that excites me the most about having kids lol… I’m weird! Much <3,
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RYN: OMG lol… can I have his digits anyway? Haha jk. Yeah Idk what that anonymous poster was thinking lol… I need to find a guy like your friend that lives in the Philly area damn it! Much <3,
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It will get here quick enough…I don’t want it to, cuz then I will be almost 23 AND single..lol. I thought there would be more men in SoCal, guess I was wrong…lol Hey forget Tricia….lol…hook me up with the SD boy…lol Cute baby names.
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RYN…haha sounds like my kind of man..as long as he likes a little junk in the trunk. I have pics all through my diary..mm first one that comes to mind is “the BIg Tease” entry and then lots of them at the beginning of my diary. But tell him if he doesn’t have passion to fuggeaboutit…lol jk
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RYN: We’re having right around 100 guests. Some call it small, some call it big. I would like it to be smaller but we have so many close family members that it’d be hard to decide who gets to come and who doesn’t. So they’re all invited. LOL
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My boyfriend and I wasted no time for our son. 2 months into DATING we got pregnant, lol. But it’s such a trip. Having a child with someone you are truly in love with really is as fulfilling as everyone says. Just wait till you have one. 🙂 And I wish you both all the luck in the world. Congrats!
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Ahhh I’m so happy someone else likes the name Constantine other than me. I suggested that name to my honey but he was like hell no, he’ll be made fun of. And while it’s possible I don’t care. I’m trying to sell Konstantine now to him as a girls name after Something Corporate’s song. It’s not working too well. Good luck!
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