Amazing News

WARNING: EXTREMELY LONG, but interesting, ENTRY AHEAD. YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED!

Okay so…where to start. So many good things happened today I dont know whats best right now. Okay well I guess the greaest news is, Im moving! Back to San Diego! On May 1st were are leaving. I talked to my mom today and she is going to pay for us to move back. We dont have to pay her back either. Im giving up my honeymoon to have her pay for the trip, which Im fine with. Also she offered to let us stay with her, rent free and bills free. So we have to  pay for our own phone line, but other than that, and car insurance and registration, oh and our storage fee, we wont have to deal with bills or rent. Im going to keep this Red Lobster job, even though I dont like it, so I can transfer and have a job while Chris searches for a job. Then after he gets a job, Im quitting Red Lobster and Im going to school. He’s going to work full time and Im going to do school full time, for a vet assistant. The schooling is going to be through ROP so its free. So me and Chris can save money for our own place. We will prolly be living there for 6 months to a year depending on how long school takes and how much money we have. Chris will work while Im pregnant and until Im recovered and bonded enough with our baby. Then if we have enough saved and Im making a good amount, he will be a stay at home dad, so one of us is always with our baby. I told my mom we wanna start having kids a few months after marriage and she thought it was great. So that was the summary, Lets go in depth shall we?

I decided May 1st because its a good six months to save up for hotels and gas, and still a nice chunk to have in savings for our apartment and baby. My mom offered to let us stay there for free as long as one worked and one of us go to school. Chris doesnt want to ever go back to school, but I love animals and a vet’s assistant seems like a great job for me. Ive been biten by animals so im not scared of that. Plus its a high paying job, and I wan to be able to give my baby all the great stuff, like food and diapers lol. My mom is paying for the trip like I said, with part of the 3 grand for our honeymoon. The rest of the money will be held on to by my mom, for the baby stuff when we start trying. Im gonna be a wife and mommy so soon. Me and my mom have had our differences, all out fights, and words of never speaking again. But now that Im older I see that some of things she did that I thought were wrong, were really for my best. Now I wouldnt raise my chid exactly the way she raised me, but I will incorperate some of it in my parenting. Im also going to follow Dr. Phils advice very  closely. I agree with his parenting style a lot. But Im not going to be a sheep, Im going to have my own parenting style just a mixture of all three. Im so happy I could cry. I did start crying after I got off the phone. Chris’s mom is happy for us, but she thinks she be a little lonely at first. I promised we would call her everyday, and if anything went wrong,  or she took a turn for the worst, we would be on a plane before she knew what was happening. Also I said if we could afford it we would swtich of holidays. One year we will come for Thanksgiving, the next for Christmas. We are going to swtich off the holidays with Chris’s brother and sister in law. That way she’ll never be alone on the holidays.

Im so happy. I know we could leave two weeks notice tommorrow and pack our stuff and leave, but I think waiting til may is better for all. Its past the holidays, and we can get money saved up, and tax season is over. My mom is a tax preparer. If you live in San Digo and need your taxes done just note me up! Lol. This has truly been a great Thanksgiving. God has blessed me so much on this day. BTW the food was great and I had a relaxing day!

On another note, for all my favorites, Im going to be making Christmas OR Jewish E-cards, so if you want one, just leave me a private note with your email! Im too poor to send out regular cards, but I can still send an E-card. Btw….please leave your real name too, in case I dont know it.