Things I Need to Tell Myself

Jay is NOT Aidan. Jay is NOT Chris. Jay is a good guy.

I have the RIGHT to be happy. I have the RIGHT to be free of anxiety and fear. I have the RIGHT to have a happy relationship.

Put faith in my relationship with Jay.

Take it slow. If it doesn’t work out then it’s not meant to be. I deserve love and if I won’t find it with him, I will with someone else.

I’m a good person. I’m loyal to Jay always. I’m a great catch with alot to offer to my boyfriend. If someone can’t see that then it’s their problem and I will walk away.

Think positive.

Jay is kind and warm. Jay reassures me. He will not go back to his ex, his actions have proven that many times.

Go with the flow.  Allow yourself to miss him. Allow the warm feelings.

It’s ok to care!

Don’t be jealous or scared, it drives people away. Show him that you care and trust him.

Don’t over-analyze things.

TRUST.

Believe things will work out for the best!

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January 6, 2008

Yes! 🙂 Like I said, I get good vibes about Jay. I think he lives by that motto “Do unto others as they would do unto you”? 🙂 ~*Samantha*~

“think globally, act locally” use that instead of “I have a right” you’ll scare people less 🙂

January 6, 2008

*nods*

January 7, 2008

It’s crazy how far a little faith in things can go.

January 15, 2008

im glad your writing again! I believe this guy sounds nice! good luck with him. I would say.. living apart is hard. but accept him in when he comes to your town and start a new with him!!!