Don’t speak if you don’t know the whole story!!
So, those of you who read my last entry probably noticed that I was very brief with my description of my friend’s death. With good reason…I don’t want to think about things that upset me. However…comments made on subjects like this should be made only by an informed individual and I must say, I’m a little irritated!!
what a good friend you were forgetting that a friend had cancer then not talking to them for a year then being really upset when they die and trying to sy well he didnt talk to me about it even though he was going through his own personal hell [Kiwigirl1983]
My reply:
ryn: well, to start he lives a 17 hour drive from where I live, we were really only just close when we were in college together, and to keep in contact with all of the people that I know from college would be absolutely ludicrous…we were all a really tight-knit LARGE group of people. He finished college a year and a half before I did, so he was gone long ago. When he came to visit, it wasn’t me [black_haven] [p]
he came to visit, it was Gill. A girl who stabbed him in the back repeatedly, the one who he came to me upset over, time and time again because she was leading him on so that she could get some attention and feel loved. It was ME that was there for him, not her. So yes, I am bitter that it was those people that he wanted to be close with and not me. Yes I am bitter that the message he actually [
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sent me via msn did not say, "I have cancer" it was, "I think I might have cancer but I’ll get back to you on that". And then never contacted me again and a year later I found out that he was dead…absolutely I’m bitter.
I’m also pretty sure that open diary is meant to be an open, supportive site. I was writing my entry for the simple fact that I was upset. It is not your place to say how I [black_haven]
should and should not be living my life. Those people that know the story of him, know my life, know me, or know him, knew exactly how it all went down. If you don’t have something nice to say, maybe you should at least think about what you know about the whole situation before you give your negative opinion. [
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*Edit* This is the girl’s next entry lol…the notes at the bottom are the best part
people on here are way to senstive i mean if you have an online diary you leave it open for the world to read right… and if you let any one leave notes (like i do) then you will get people who dissagree with you and people who agree with you and maybe you should just ignore the notes you don’t like or delete them not try and write back to the person explaining or trying to justfy why
you suck haha cause most people don’t care about your life right if you are honest with yourself admit you don’t likewise if you are reading this you probablly don’t care about me which is fine cause at least i can handle it not pretending to have 2000 friends on facebook who i love and cant live with out bunch of idiots in my vast vast vast experance ":real" freidns are a hell of a lot better than online stouges
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if you didn’t care about what I had to say you wouldn’t have a) written on my entry b) written back to my notes and c) devoted an entire diary entry to me [black_haven]
p.s. you clearly haven’t been on this site long enough to realize what it’s really about, and insulting someone’s life isn’t the nature of this site. If that’s what you want to do, this isn’t the site to do it. [black_haven]
Wow, what a tool you are, huh Looks like someone has entirely too much time on their hands. You’re probably one one those asshats that created an entire diary just to judge and belittle everyone. Damn right you don’t have 2000 friends. You probably have none.
just passing by and i can seriously feel the tension and i think that none of this matters (to you and your other noters). not even a little bit. not even at all.
write and let write. people have diff opinions. it’s really not that big a deal.
[Me, Frances]
