Did I go overboard?

My bf asked me before he went to bed to get ready because he wasn’t feeling well and I “better not fcking wake him up”. I was cuddling with the dog on top of me and I didn’t want to disturb him so I said that if he tossed me my pjs, I would do my best not to wake him. He said “no get them yourself” so I said alright, well chances are I might wake you. But I’ll try not to. That was 2 hours ago.

Just now I came upstairs, walked halfway across the bedroom floor (which didn’t involve opening a door or turning a light on), and I was greeted with “you FckING woke me up! Your a FckING BITCH!” Over and over. He got out of bed to pee, so I locked him out until he apologized. He was so mad he raised his fist and almost broke the glass on the door. I told him to apologize. At this point I was a Fcking c-nt. And a string of other words were at his lips. He went tob sleep on the couch.
Am I out of line in locking him out? Or justified? Right noe, I feel pretty awful, and I would like an outside perspective. Hard to see when its your own situation.

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February 27, 2011

Jesus girl, there’s an invisable line in a relationship, that’s crossing it right there. You did the only thing you could, besides calling the cops! I personally would suggest getting out of that relationship. He raised his fist, might have only been a door this time, but trust me from personal experience, that’s how it starts. Please please PLEASE be careful!

February 27, 2011

well from reading only this entry i would have to say u did nothing wrong. he was outta line acting that way for no real reason other then to be a jerk it seems. i hope this is the only time he has raised his fists and that he has never laid a hand on u. hope things get better

February 27, 2011

well is he like that when he’s not sick? If hes on meds maybe thats why…