Hmm

Eddygordo4: are you good at asking questions?

Disorganizedmind: Umm…I dunno?

Eddygordo4: i was just asking because i think i ask too many questions sometimes, but the other person rarely asks me any 🙁

Disorganizedmind: I just don’t have the need to really know? I’ll volunteer info if someone asks, but I don’t really have an inward desire to inquire about the inner workings of someone’s life. If they want to tell me that’s cool, but I don’t want to pry.

Eddygordo4: so you don’t get close to people online?

Disorganizedmind: I did before, years ago. But I’ve met some creeps and jerks…so I’m a little more careful than before.

Eddygordo4: i understand

Eddygordo4: i just say that b/c it feels like the other person isn’t as interested you know?

Disorganizedmind: It’s not that, I just don’t want to seem like I’m prying, and that I’m usually pretty busy so it’s hard for be to have an indepth convo. while I’m doing homework or something.

A few entries ago, I wrote about how I wish that people would ask me questions because it seemed like they weren’t interested. Disorganizedmind bought to my attention a new viewpoint I hadn’t considered: perhaps people online don’t want to get close to someone over the net. I mean, ever since the Beth fiasco, I have to restrain my self by limiting the type of questions I ask. I really don’t know how someone feels when I ask a certain question, but I hope it isn’t fear or something like ‘I wish he’d stop asking questions’ or something. Over the 5 years I’ve had the internet, I’ve met lots of people and I have a good bit of people I am close to; on the level of being able to talk about anything. I love having one or two friends where you can let loose on whatever question you had in mind. Before the Beth fiasco, I didn’t really worry about the kinds of question I would ask. The only set of perverted questions I’d ask was about the female body. I only asked that because you females have a very complex body structure; I want to know how it works and stuff.

Anyway, I didn’t really do anything extraordinary over the weekend. Thanks to Liz, I found my story and at the same time reorganized my lower closet. Now, my closet looks all nice and organized *smiles*. I’m not a neat freak, but I will clean up when I feel that it needs to be clean.

I gave that speech today. Hehe I was soo fast, I had finished 30 seconds under the minimum time. I had to hurry up and come up with something really quickly to bring it over the four minute mark. I talked about how online dating works–using emoticons–the side against online dating, and some tips to have a safe, enjoyable relationship online. I did talk about Sarah and Chris’s relationship, and I mentioned one other relationship as well. I wasn’t nervous at all hehe.

The other speeches were about: Colombia, Nuclear Power, Heaven or Hell?, some Bahama Festival, paper routes, and something about dioxins. Well I’m going to head in for the night. Have a good day.