Does It Matter?

Today, I was at the library and returning a book entitled, When Dad Killed Mom, when I met up with my friend from my rival high school, Newton. We talked for a good while when the topic of conversation landed on chatting on the internet. She was talking to me about how she rarely gives her number out to anyone unless she really knows the person. I am the same way. However, there are tons of people who can’t afford long distance or can’t dial it, so there isn’t much of a point in giving out your number. Plus, e-mail and IMs are cheaper (not to mention having the luxury of voice mail).

Anywho, that’s not the topic I wanted to talk about. Instead, we got on the topic of weight and breast sizes.

First of all, she was telling me that she wouldn’t give out her weight if someone asked. The same can be said for breast sizes. Personally, I could careless about the size of someone’s breast because I have adamantly believed that a female is more than just boobs, butt, and vagina. As the old saying goes, ‘there’s more than meets the eye’. Anyway, she related a tale of when a friend of hers told this guy how much she weighed and the guy was just hateful towards her. She asked me what was the big deal with knowing how much someone weighs or how big/small the boobs are.

Giving out your weight and boob size provides a person (more likely a guy) a mental image of that person. Generally, someone who is like 5’6″ weighs less than 125. If a girl told a guy that she is 5’6″ and weighs 160 lbs, more than likely the guy will dump her for someone who is lighter. On the other hand, the guy could ask a girl her boob size. If her boobs are too small for him, he’ll leave her for someone else. It’s a shame really. You’re judging someone when you will probably never see that person in real life unless the two can arrange a meeting or something.

I mean, it’s not like girls ask guys the size of their penis ya?