Superhero
Hey remember last year when I had pretty much the best night of my life at the premiere of the ski movie that our clients were in, during which we went to dinner, VIP’d the premiere, went to the afterparty with pro-skiers and I kind of fan’d out and couldn’t believe the job I had?
Well that is slated to happen again, tomorrow. Ski movie premiere take 2.
Except this time, one of our clients is having a pilot filmed for a Red Bull-produced web series, which will feature the Seattle premiere of his movie.
We’re going to do a Ride The Ducks in the afternoon… then go to dinner, then go to the premiere, then go to the afterparty.
Paco and Dave are going to the premiere and the after party, I will be so glad to see them after all this in-the-clouds craziness.
I mean, seriously.
I was planning on wearing a dress, a white lace dress but if we’re riding the ducks in the rain… yucko.
Plus, my hair! I wanted to curl my hair. Whatever will happen if I get caught in the rain?
FIRST WORLD PROBLEMS
In other news…
Had a bit of a sex breakthrough with Paco last night.
We were doing funny little exercises, he was doing pushups and situps (not funny) and I was teaching him yoga poses and rolling around on my exercise ball like a dork, and he got super turned on immediately.
But he just told me that he was turned on, and kept looking at me like he wanted me to make a move, and I wouldn’t, because BE A MAN already and take charge god dammit!
Don’t just look at me like I’m all of a sudden supposed to pounce on you.
Men can be super turned on by just the sight of something. Women need revving up. At least most of the time.
So I just sat next to him and played with his hair, and he still wasn’t doing anything, just waiting for me.
So obvi nothing happened, until later when it was actual bed time.
But even during the actual bed time, I can’t get him to make the first move.
He was being so timid and not really taking the reigns… which he doesn’t do on a regular basis.
But the thing is, I LIKE dominance and control in my man.
When I ‘fantasize’ I imagine him walking into my apartment, being so overwhelmed by his feeling for me that he grabs me and starts making out, passionately, taking me by surprise… leading me to my bed and bending me over it, entering me from behind, grabbing my ass…
Anyway.
After we had sex (which turned out to be pretty good considering I was super blah about it to begin with) I asked him what kind of fantasies he has about me…
He said nothing too wild, nothing out-of-the-box (which may seem boring to the masses, but I am not really a weirdo in bed either… I like to improve and perfect the regular things), he just likes to think about me and sex and us having sex.
Then he asked me…
So I told him. Exactly what I just wrote.
He was like, Really?! He wanted to know how he could improve upon our current situation with what I told him so I said he could just be more in control, more passionate.
He knows he is timid when it comes to first moves…
So yeah, hopefully I’ll get my superhero Paco that I have thought about for so long.
But seriously, he is THE BEST in bed. It’s just the leading up to it that could use a little more oomph.
In other news….
Okay I got nothin else.
Ciao!
A guy taking control is SO hot. I hope he steps up and does it!!
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Ahhh well now he’s got the information… just needs to act on it! Have a great time at ski movie premiere #2!
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Thank you for leaving that note. I needed that reminder! I was SO miserable!
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RYN: i’m so happy i could help!!!
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