The point

It’s nice to be able to get things off your chest.

Especially when you live in a world where men are applauded for owning and exploring their sexual identities, and women are condemned for it.

If I were to tell my friends any of the stories that I’ll spill on here, they would be shocked and affronted and would most definitely disapprove.

What I do, sexually, is something that I’d like to be able to make sense of and sort out for myself. I’d like to be able to openly express exactly what I do and how it makes me feel so that I can come to some sort of conclusion about the sort of person I am, why I do what I do, and whether it’s a good or a bad thing.

I’m going to spend some time recounting stories – not necessarily in chronological order – and talking about what they meant to me at the time and what they mean to me now.

This is my sexual self liberated.

Lets get started.