And… the deadbeat wins!***

seriously?!?!  Seriously??!?!!! 

I cannot catch a break around here, I swear to.. well you know.

i’m sooo upset. 

You see about a week ago I had to go to court with David because he was trying to get his child support reduced.  We both testified.  I showd that i have a bazillion more bills than he does… and just slightly more income.

For cryin’ out loud when asked to state the girls’ names and ages he said Maya was 8… um, no, she’s 7!

and i thought that since i was SO much  more prepared and showed how i’m struggling to support the girls that he would have to continue paying the same amount.

Welll.. the joke’s on me.

I just got the judgement in the mail today.  He will now have to pay me $63/week for both kids.  Why bother?? seriously?  Many of you are going to ask what he was ‘paying’ and the answer is he was ordered to pay $110/week.  However, i’ve only been receiving $92 from him.  So now he gets off paying only $63, oh let’s not forget the $5/week he has to pay toward his almost $2,000 in arrears (!!!), so i will get $68.

I wish he would just terminate his rights to them.  He could pay nothing, and I wouldn’t have to deal with him.. (or his hoodrat, white trash, scum girlfriend).  It’s a win, win if you ask me.  And as for the girls.. Charles is more of a dad to them than he will ever be.

This whole thing has really made me see the light though.

I now know, for a fact, that *I* will be the only real parent to these kids.. providing for them emotionally, financially, physically, etc. 

He will always be able to play the victim.. and is now enabled by the court system.

So thanks Niagara county family court for enabling another dead beat dad and finally making me realize that this parenting this is, indeed, all MY responsibility.

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And now he’s threatening to take me to court to make our visitation schedule set.

Seriously, I’m so beat down right now, i’m not sure if i can handle anymore…