Slummin’ in Cabbage Town!

 Ehh,  its nice to visit the haunts of your youth, and last night I got to visit one of my old haunts,

a part of Atlanta known as Cabbage Town,  its a kinda cool little bohemian neighborhood,  past 10 years its gentrified into this hip little enclave, but when I was there is was pretty scuzzy.. the houses are ramshackle little huts, (though vastly improved in the past 10 years since the tornadoes a few years ago came through) 20 years ago you could buy a house here for $5,000.00 (and still feel like you overpaid) 

 

Now,  the crash pads and unregulated rooming houses are renting for $800-1500 a month,  wowser!

I met a friend who I mentored when he was in highschool,  he graduated with his Master’s in Comparative History whatever the hell that is,  his these was on Dicken’s Tale of Two Cities, and he discussed the importance of sound in the novel.  Pretty esoteric if you ask me.

I bought steaks and beer, and true to my blue collar roots I bought a 6 pack of PBR talls,  threw the steaks on one of the minigrills (holy crap how do you cook 5 t-bones and 5 brats on a grill that is the size of a shoebox?  At the store with my friend (his name is Jesse) as I was buying food for the meal he started putting regular supplies in the basket,  shampoo, deodorant, etc..I laughed ,  he was lamenting his massive student loan debt. .  25 years old,  master degree, no job, no job prospects (I mean not like there are lots of jobs for History majors in comparitive lit.  I didnt want to point out that is was crass when somebody buys your dinner ingredients to not pile on your personal sundries…

Steaks were good,  beer was good,  company was strange,  felt good…I could have stayed all night, instead only drank two beers and headed to the barn…

Its funny,  as I was talking with Jesse,  I said ,  hey dude,  we hardly get together but I turn up at all your milestones,  what to make of that?

I look at my life and the milestones in my life go by one by one,  and seem kinda solo to me…just a constantly revolving cast of people..how bizzarre.

Speaking of bizzarre,  I have fetish for Korean fermented vegetables,  having a large korean population here in ATL,  I am on a quest to find the most obscure… best one yet was a salad made with dried minnows with black sesame seeds and some kind of rice wine vinegrettte.  Ohh another one I really like at this stone bowl place are these fermented pickles/cucumbers,  that have fermented long enough that the interior pickles have secondary fermentation which means when I bite into them they kind of explode with carbon dioxide bubble that kinda burn and tingle the tongue, combine that with the flaming hot pepper mash covering the outside its pretty slick.

 

Anyways I rolled home with Dido cranked in the truck, windows down,  warm breeze,  all is well with the world!

I have received much sympathy concerning the recent storms here in the South,  but fear not,  for Southerners are at their best during difficult times,  we love our misery, (Go read Faulker, and other southern writers for more on that)  we thrive on disaster,  ever since the civil war,  we have this attitude of disaster being our just rewards for our sinful life and at the same time,  regard it as a purifying test of our faith and values.  (now understand no Southerner would ever say this)  but actions speak…

And as we say "The South will Rise Again" 

From the warmest hippest portion of the deep South, were all the men are mostly men (or incarcerated) the women are twice the men the men are, and all the children are a study in the wonder of humanity!  

-Beauty for Ashes

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Note to self, make sure we dine at steak places vs Korean places. Gross.

Okay, you write and I always can picture it as you write. I love that. So desriptive. But I’m not so sure about that fermented Korean food. Especially the one that has an explosion of fermentedness on your tongue. I would try it because I always try anything once (as long as I do not have to pick it out of its own body ie crab, mussels) but someone would probably want a picture

of my face as I tried it. I make a face just thinking about it. But I would still give it a chance! Mentorship. I have a girl that I’ve mentored since she was in grade 7. I’ve moved away but still see her at least once a year and it is like time never even passed. We have never gotten together without someone coming up to us and telling us that we have the exact same personality. Which is the

absolute truth. We can talk to each other with a look, finish each other’s sentence without even saying the words to finish the sentence. It’s weird and it all started with a conversation when I was 21 and she was 13. Fast forward 10 years and she is graduating this year to be a nurse and that is where we differ. she talks about her nursing stuff and I faint. All this to say that I know how much I

love this girl. There is not a thing I would not do for her. It started off as a mentorship and its ended as far more than that. I love that you have had the opportunity to mentor someone (I am sure more than one) and find it curious that you’ve gone through your major stages alone or solo. Makes me think about my own stages. I’ve pushed people away as Ive gotten older. especially right now as I

go through my divorce. I wonder why that is. Interesting. I need to think.

May 3, 2011

Sounds like an interesting visit. I love how he mooched off of you and you felt too bad to tell him he was being wrong. lol. now i want steak.

Can I get some steak lol

btw, it’s not like BfA wouldn’t have bought the crap for the guy anyway. LOL Helloo, just think of it as another way to pay it foward. *smiles sweetly*

May 5, 2011

I love all of those Korean gems. My brother’s girlfriend is Korean and pretty much a sister to me. They have been together since the 7 th grade so we all kinda grew up half Korean. My brother is much better with the weirder Korean goodies but I love anything fermented and pickled.