Feel’n Sexxi at 47

It’s a trip….when I was in my 20’s I didn’t see myself as sexy…I didn’t feel sexy…I felt frumpy. I felt over looked. Like no one seen me as anything but as Dannelle. I hit 47 n I feel sexier now then ever. I’ve learned to embrace my flaws… my body…n I’m more confident n my older years. I am ok having my flaws because with out them…I would never understand how to over come myself battles. U couldn’t shake me or break me now…even if u tried. Someone said…*OH U GAINED WEIGHT* n instead of allowing it to crumble my self esteem I shoot back…*LIVING THAT GOOD LIFE WILL DO THAT TO A PERSON* n keep striding thru my day with a huge smile on my face. My daughter asked me a while back…”Mom….do u ever feel insecure about anything cuz u always seem so confident n I wish I was more like u.”

All I could say to her is…”JUST LIVE UR LIFE FOR A FEW YEARS N U WILL STOP ALLOWING PPL TO BRING U DOWN…U WILL APPRECIATE THE WOMAN U ARE N WHAT GOD GAVE U…U WILL GET TIRED OF LETTING THE TEARS FALL DOWN UR CHEEKS JUST CUZ OF THE OPINION SOMEONE ELSE HAS OF U…U WILL LEARN TO LOVE URSELF COMPLETELY N EVERYTHING ELSE WILL NOT MATTER BUT UR HAPPINESS”.

It’s taken me 30 something years to get here n to love myself n I wouldn’t turn the clock back for anything. I’m cool with me n I love the sexy I’m feeling!