A mother’s Incoming pet peeve:
So u know what I don’t get? I don’t get how some ppl think u can dis own ur child just because they have issues of any kind…mentally…emotionally…physically
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If they make bad choices or decisions…for example if they make a choice to take another life…or rape…or do drugs or whatever the case may be. I’m just speaking figuratively so don’t come for me.
Me as a mom, I promised to love my child no matter what. Mothers carry their children in the womb for almost 10 months…that means we are one being for a moment in time n the love begins then. Mothers are entertwined with their children on all levels so it blows my mind how some ppl think that just because they make their own choices in life that we are supposed to not love them! Look…I will love my child thru it all…I may not condone the behavior or agree morally with what my children decide to do and I will command my children be upstanding human beings and I will demand them to do the time if they commit a crime and I would turn my own child in if they do some crazy out of pocket things or atrocious acts but I will never ever stop loving my child no matter what n for those of u who would ain’t none of my bizness…that’s ur choice but for me…I will still love my child no matter what or regardless of the act they choose to do. U don’t have to agree with me but I don’t have to agree with u either! Stop judging the next parent for the level of love we have for our children n we won’t judge u for the way u love urs!
Periodt…point blank!
JS
I believe we raise our children with any expectation of who they will be and when it turns out that they are their own person, with their own thoughts, opinions, and values, it can be difficult to let go of our own ego and let them be. You don’t have to like or approve of your children’s behavior or actions, but the very least we can do, is tell them they are loved. Try to be the example, and just maybe they will follow in time and maybe they won’t and that can be good too. We help them grow and at times they can help us grow.
@topher1981 100% luv what u said. Exactly my thought process. I just don’t understand the way some parents are towards their children but it’s not my place for what they choose to think n do. I’m only speaking on what I think n do. I appreciate ur words. 🥰
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