Situations

You know those situations where you don’t actually have a choice.
When you KNOW that you have to say yes, the thought that you are allowed to say no never even crosses your mind because even though you don’t WANT to do something, you know you HAVE to.

They’re the worst.

You do have a choice! I know it makes it difficult, after have joked around with him, but don’t do something you don’t want. Maybe you can just try to avoid him for awhile..be busy, talk to other people. If you have friend at work who could help, you might even enlist their help…just tell them you want to avoid him, because he’s coming on to you. Perhaps you might feel bad about this, or think

it won’t help. But if you can put some time in between, it will be easier. Act like you are really busy, or busy talking to others. And in the meantime, try not to joke anymore with him. If he says something just smile, and change the subject, or make an excuse and say “See you later.”