He’s in the wrong business…

Granted sales is good for people who are convincing also, I just think he could make a lot more money as a lawyer and he could make a murderer look like a saint. It’s like that. I go from thinking that my life with him is over and there’s nothing he could do or say to make me change my mind because the evidence is all there and it all has to be what I think it is, to…feeling dumb and ALMOST believing him. You tell me, I lost it because he started a facebook without me knowing and on it made no mention of me or a family and only invited girls that he worked with and went to school with, then I find out about a site he’s registered and created a profile for called adultfriendfinder.com which is like a myspace for people looking for sex and on it he talks about laying dick and how he likes to f*** and that even though he’s married is looking for other girls, couples, or girl couples, and I found a text that has him and another girl arranging a lunch after she gets her hair done. So here’s his rebuttle, he didn’nt think that I would care about his facebook because I didn’t tell him about mine, even though I don’t have guy friends on it, and he didn’t write ANYTHING in his profile because he did it from his phone and it was  too much of a hassle to add all the details, and that the only reason he invited all girls from high school was because his 10 year reunion should be coming up and he wanted to find out when and the only friends he had in high school were girls, and he didn’t date or do anything with any of them so he didn’t think I’d care about that. The adultfriendfinder.com thing, he said that he was looking at porn, which isn’t news to  me, and he signed up for it thinking it was another  site like what he normally goes to and didn’t think it was like  a community thing. The text was from a girl he said he worked with at his other store which he just recently moved from and that she always wanted to go to the chicken place that is right by his job and she was in that area so decided to see if he could go to. I’m most pissed about the text because he told me he went to lunch with her and even went on a seperate occasion with another girl he currently works with and since they were "associates" he didn’t think I’d care and it never once crossed his mind to tell me because it seemed normal to him and that neither girl was a threat because they are both engaged. He said that now that he knows how I feel about it he won’t go ANYWHERE outside of work with any female unless I know about it ahead of time, and he said that he doesn’nt care that I changed his status to married on facebook and that even though he initially cancelled the account when he saw that I did that because he felt it was an invasion of his privacy and I made him feel he did something wrong, he is now going to keep it activated as it is. And with the adult site, he can’t really do anything on it because all contact requires a paid membership which he’s not about to pay for. Soooooooo….what’s real, what’s a lie, am I stupid? Does his reasoning hold up against "court", what do ya’ll think? His closing statement that he made sure to reiterate was that he loves me and our family more than  anything and he will never be with anyone else period and will never again put himself into a situation where his commitment to me could be compromised. He said that nothing and no one is worth losing me and our girls. ?????????

 "Live a life worth living" — Ashley A.