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Things that make me feel grounded and safe

June 11, 2024
My therapist asked me to make a list of things that made me feel....I forget her exact words...but in essence, things I felt I could rely on, things that made me feel grounded and safe. I spun out for the better part of a week and a half as I thought about this. She told…
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