Right.

Lucy will be waking up from her nap any minute, but I wanted to make sure I posted something. In all thats been GREAT about life the past few months, i neglected to mention that me and Paul are better than ever, finally. Our sex life is back in full swing and I couldnt be happier about it. What a relief, and how exciting it is now, and how comfortable and fun….

Input I got on this issue reflects that Paul perhaps went through the normal changes after watching a baby come out of his wifes vagina. In so many words. While that in itself didnt freak him out and shy him away from sex with me, but it was probably EVERYTHING that changed after having a baby. His wife’s attention was completely on the baby, her boobs belonged to the baby, her love and affection all went towards the baby, and her whole body actually was for the baby. So instead of facing these feelings of jealosy or being left out, he did what a lot of other guys might do and he just…fucked right off, basically. He spent all his time running/working out or on his boat fishing, and his sexual energy went straight into masturbation/porn. He was kinda like, well if i’m not needed here then i’ll just fuck right off for a while; let me know when there is a place for me again!

And i let him know, months ago, that I wanted him again, that there was most definitely a place for him. But he took longer to come around than i did. Now that the baby isnt so much of a "baby" anymore, and she’s more fun, more active, more of a little person, he is more involved. She’s not on my boob 24-7 anymore, and im training her to sleep through the night which is going well, so all these things i think have contributed to getting our sex life back on track. A man I know who has 3 kids told his girlfriend (not me directly) "trust me- it happened with me too after every baby. The man just needs to pull himself away a little bit sometimes or face feeling left out/jealous which is a hard to explain feeling". I think this is some of the reasons we’ve been out of touch for the past year. Well, not whole year. Its been better for a few months I guess. Its been slow going in this later half of Lucy’s life but now things are right where they should be. Lots of passionate kisses on the lips 😉 Never thought I’d see that again!!!

End Brag.