Ok those 5 questions

 A fellow friend on OD had a system going where you can ask a person 5 questions for them to answer. Below are the rules about those questions and then the questions and my answers follow :-

Question Rules

1 — Leave a comment, saying you want to be interviewed.
2 — I will respond; I’ll ask you five questions.
3 — You’ll update your journal with my five questions, and your five answers.
4 — You’ll include this explanation.
5 — You’ll ask other people five questions when they want to be interviewed.

Questions and Answers.

1. If u could change one thing in your life what would it be?

I wish I could have met my current wife so much earlier in my life. I love her so much and we are so well suited to one another in almost every way. Having said that I also know that everything happens for a reason and so it was meant to be that I lived the life I had already lived in order to be in the place I was to met her.

2. As a person who has been cheated on (and kicked out) what hurt the most about that experience?

Interestingly I really feel nothing but relief in respect of that expereince. You see I was already out of love at the time and life had become pretty awful. So  when it happened I was relieved that it was finally all over and I could start again. The fact that she had cheated on me really didn’t hurt. Not sure why. I just didn’t care. At the time I cared about our two kids and getting my life back on track.

3. What makes ur wife so amazing?

Gosh – just about everything. But i will try and list the main things. She doesn’t try to change me – she loves me the way I am. We find peace in each others company – just being with each other feels good. She encourages me to do what I want and be who I want. Doesn’t seek to hold me back. She understands that my work can be very demanding of my time – when I am working that is. We are sexually very similar. We share the same fantasies and she enjoys acting them out, it has been so enriching to our relationship and ensured that we keep our sex life very fun. She is so gorgeous to me. She has accepted all my kids, along with all the stuff that goes along with that. That is pretty amazing really.

4. Have you ever cheated?

Well yes – on my second wife. I had a short interlude with a colleague who worked in a different city that I visited with work regularly. It lasted about 2 months and I guess about 8 instances. They were completely physical only. I didn’t love her or vice versa – guess it was just meeting our respective needs at the time. Fortunately it stopped as in all honesty these things always have a high risk to go very bad – especially given I was a senior executive in the company. My current wife knows about this, but my second wife doesn’t. No benefit in telling her really.

5. #1 fantasy (any one either sexual or life related)

You know, I am not even sure what a life related fantasy would be. I have life goals – you know things I really want to be able to do in my life. I expect to be able to achieve them. Guess it must be the accountant in me that doesn’t cuase me to have a life fantasy that would be unachievable. So if I am thinking of sexual fantasies, it would definitely be a threesome between me, my wife and another guy. He would have to be bi-comfortable(as I am). Babe and I often talk about this fantasy when we are making love and it just gets us hotter and hotter the more we go into it and explore all the various scenarios how it could happen.

So there you are – these are my answers – happy to ask 5 questions of anyone who would like to be interviewed. As the rules above suggest.