S & S

My coworkers text me wanting to know if I wanted to go out. I wasn’t really up to it, but I’m sooooo glad I went! I had a blast!

They took me to a bar I hadn’t been to before "S&S". It was by the Air Force.

This place was sooo different.

When I walked in, my first impression was that it reminded me of a biker bar, but it wasn’t. It was diverse in race and style. There were a couple of pool tables and a dance floor and a long horizontal bar at the back. They played old hip hop favorites mixed with current top 40 hits.

Outside, there was a stage area where a band was playing classic rock hits. It also had a basketball & volleyball court, and a place to play sand toss/bags.

It was like a huge rec center and everyone was just casually hanging out, drinking, and playing games. I loved it! This is my kind of place. I’m not really into fancy clubs. I would choose a "hole-in-the-wall" bar over an upscale club any day.

Anyway, everyone was sooo friendly. We made a bunch of new friends. I hit the dance floor with my coworkers and random buddies. I don’t remember the last time I danced so much. I woke up so sore this morning. LOL!

I met a few guys, but none that I really thought I wanted to get to know. I also met a couple (husb & wife) who thought me and my friends were awesome. The wife was so cute and funny. She danced with us. We exchanged numbers. The husband kept telling me that I was unique, beautiful, and that I shouldn’t settle in my quest for a good guy. I thought this was odd cuz I didn’t tell them about my breakup. All they asked me was my age, if I had kids, and if I was single. They were surprised at my answers. The wife said I was lucky to be in my 30s and to not have kids. She told me to enjoy it. She has 6 kids. It’s funny how the grass is greener on the other side. I would gladly trade places with her.

I got a slightly weird vibe from the husband. He was nice and all, but he felt the need to walk me to my car when we were leaving. He repeated again that I was beautiful, and then he started telling me how his wife had a messed up life and how they had issues. I didn’t think it was appropriate. I made sure to remind him how awesome his wife is and how lucky he is to have her. I also told him if he had any cute single friends to send them my way. I hope he doesn’t turn out to be a creep.

We left around 1:30am and went to eat at Denny’s. I didn’t go to sleep till almost 4am.

I’m tired… gonna eat some pizza and take a nap! 🙂