No sex (2+ weeks) and loving it

It has been a while since I had sex with my wife. I’m inclined to say that it has been 3 weeks, but I didn’t write it down on a calendar. It *has* been at least 2 weeks.

That’s just fine with me.

I really don’t have any desire to f*ck my wife. The last time I remember feeling any desire was early last year. Since then, I’ve just been "doing the husbandly duty" and appeasing her when she wants to cum. There’s no thrill left in the sex act… it’s just "get me off and then I can get you off and then we’ll go to sleep." Yay.

She’s not going to be around this week (business trip), so it ain’t happening again until at least Friday night. Once again, that’s just fine with me.

I wish I had a hot woman to fool around with. I miss feeling "into" someone else’s body. I miss the thrill of playing with a woman’s body while she plays with mine. I miss… well, I miss a lot of things.

Oh well, right?

*sigh*

ricechickie

June 3, 2007

I miss some of the same things you do. I’m adding you to my favorites.

That’s an unfortunate situation. What’s worked for us is keeping the kink in our sex via porn to get us going. Porn has also helped us to develop our sexual skills. It’s worked great for us. I remember being nervous the first time I flipped on a porno, but Sylvia had no complaints & our sex has continually become more uninhibited & fun since.

Random drop in: Welcome to OD, this is kind of a sad entry….I hope it gets better between you and your wife.