I HATE HIM SOOO MUCH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

we have been on and off since 8th grade.

I love him so much, he is my world i have and still will do anything and everything for him.

Its just he use to put me first and care about me but now he doesnt

i mean he still cares but barely he puts me first

i just dont understand///////

Everything was good and the next we end up like this.

Hateing eachother but still madely in love

but he makes me so mad but at the end of the day it will KILL

ME TO SEE HIM WITH ANOTHER GIRL. when i kno i have been his girl since 8th fuckin grade.

Idk what to do????

should i just accept how he has changed and still be wit him ??

or should i let him go which i know i cant do!!!!!

Idk imma try to talk to him tonight we havent talked since saturday because right now we are not together.

but still talk every couple days and mess around wit eachother.

Idlk i need some ppls opinions ,.,,,,,,

skyflyer

October 5, 2009

there are very few teenage guys who don’t completely suck. I’d say, if he doesn’t put you first, or if he doesn’t treat you with all the respect you deserve (and you do deserve respect), then ditch him. you don’t need to settle.

~~*Megan*~~

guys are jerks they will do jerkish things, but if he’s not willing to put you first and make you the center of his world, he’s not worth your time, more than likely you are just his tool and only wants you around for all the physical sexual things i could be wrong but in my experience thats what seems to happen… good luck hun

four-eyed-beauty

October 6, 2009

of course you think you can be without him because you’re comfortable. You said it yourself…you’ve been together since 8th grade BUT don’t be blind to the fact that things are changing for the worst…you deserve better than that.

obviously this is your decision. I’m just saying that having settled for 4 years isn’t necessarily a good reason to stay with someone that doesn’t treat you well. there are guys out there that will, and will do so for far longer than 4 years. I don’t know. I’m just saying–the “but it’s been so long, I can’t leave now” logic has never worked out well for me or anyone I know.

cherrywine

October 7, 2009

the truth is, you usually know when enough is enough for you. friends&family can give you all the advice in the world, and tell you to leave him. but you will know when the time has come, and you’ll know what to do. i wish you the best of luck. just remember you dont have to continue you going through it, when it hurts just as bad as living him, why stay?

AnJ Marie

i feel you on this.. guys totally suck! love sucks. I hate to be so, blah about it.. but it does. Wait until you love yourself, and wait until things are right with you before finding love.. becuz i think thats the only way love can be ‘okay’. Hope things work out. take care of you 1st. I know what it feels like. <3 Angel