Help!

Kay I really need some help here. I have this friend who is afaraid of the "c" word otherwise known as comittment. You see in her eyes her parents were the perfect couple and they split up in 98. Well since then she dated jerky guys all except for one. And she had a problom with cheating on them because they were all jerks. But when she met this one guy he treated her like gold. Thier relationship was great. Well then he went away to boot camp for the Air National Guard. The girl met someone and started dating him and was still with the great guy. Okay well the guy she met seemed great and then ended up being no different from the other guys she had dated. Anyway she really Loves this guy that went away to boot camp and told him that but she thinks it’s too late.  But she dosen’t want to give up. You see she found out something about her mom which related to her and so she decided not to be like her, cheating and such, so since has not. And she really loves the guy and is now very upset because since she told him how she felt he hasn’t even talked to her. And she wanted my oppinion on the situation but I don’t know what to tell her.

okay on a different subject I had an awsome 4th. I went to a barbeque with my very good friends Kat and Mona we set off like 300 dollars worth of fire works. It was great. We went swimming and hung out and all that kind of stuff.

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Hmmmm well the best thing for you is to be there for her and be completely honest with her, becos you have the ability to stand back and see things from outside the box!:) But really its up to her to change and sort things out, you just need to be there for her!:) Lol listen to me, if only I could take m own advise, always the preacher, got to learn to practise what i preach 🙂

well well hummmmm i whould say let her find out on her own if they relly care about eachouther they will make it work just tell her not to give up and that love never dies hey very cool i miss cat and mona and you a lot sorry i sounded funny on the phone tonight i was really tierd well night night love tiger

July 5, 2005

as for you friend i dont know what you should tell i guess just keep trying he will give and talk to her sooner or later or she can just move on and find someone else that can treat her just as good and stay away from her “type” of guys. and im glad that you had a graet 4!!! YAY