Our true selves

 For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. Love and hate. Pleasure and pain. Life and death. Joy and sorrow. Laugh and cry.  Good and bad. The pairings in life that no one can escape from no matter how hard one may try. When you stop to think about it, life is all about give and take.

 We come into life like clay and that is shapeless or better yet without form. We have a body but it is only a shell, a vessle of sorts, for which holds the clay and then eventually our true selves. Over time our true selves start to take form, slowly shaped and molded into that which we will become. But we are constantly changing in some small way, always growing brought on by that which we experiance. It does not matter how our outward shell may appear for it can decieve, for it is inside that we truley reside.

 At some point in time we set out on our own to live our life and continue to change and grow. We adapt to change and we learn from it. Their will be others that come along and have an impact on us changing us and causing us to grow even more. Sometimes these changes can be detrimental to us causing us to become a less than desirable being and possibly passing on those same changes or characteristics to others. If we are fortunate enough we will come in contact with those that bring about a more positive change causing us to grow and become something better than what we could ever imagine and we then pass and share those traits with others and having the same positve outcome in them.

  You only get one life, some may get a second chance but there is only one per customer. We live, we grow, we give and we take. It is all part of life. We are here only for a short time and it is our choice as to what we will make of it and what impact that we will have on others.  While you are able just ask yourself are you happy with the real you, your true self.